[Josh]

It seems you have a few misconceptions. First, a lot of gay men don't identify as "top" or "bottom." Those that do identify these ways do so for many reasons. Here's a few: Because they have tried both and enjoyed one more. Because one role feels more "appropriate" or right for them.

For each man it's different, and many men redefine themselves many times in their lives. The important thing here is to not feel confined by a label, and to do what you feel comfortable doing!

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Name : Josh, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Gay, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Jewish, Age : 22, City : Washington, State : DC Country : United States, Occupation : Queer Activist, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class, 

[Josh]

I think you need to re-examine what you are saying here. Regardless of what sexual orientation your man is, you are at risk for sexually transmitted diseases and HIV infection. In fact, since women have the fastest growing rate of HIV infection, if your man is truly a "womanizer," that may be a cause of great risk if he is having or has had unprotected sex with anyone. Both of you should get tested for a whole range of STDs.

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Name : Josh, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Gay, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Jewish, Age : 22, City : Washington, State : DC Country : United States, Occupation : Queer Activist, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class, 

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