[J. Will]

I am a female and have reason to believe the man I have been dating and fell in love with is bisexual. He is a supervisor of many construction workers, and his reputation is that of a womanizer. If it is true, I am concerned about my health because we have had unprotected sex. Should I ask him if he is bisexual? I can’t imagine he would admit it because he would be crucified at work if it ever got out. What should I do? Stop seeing him? Confront him?

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Name : J. Will, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Age : 45, City : Campbell, State : CA, Country : United States, Occupation : Administrative, Education level : Technical School, Social class : Middle class, 

[Julianna-C]

I would be more worried about dating a man who is a womanizer than dating a man who was bisexual. You are definitly at risk for an STD if you have had unprotected sex. I question the motives of any man who would risk someone else’s life by having unprotected sex with them. Any man worth hanging onto will put the safety of those he cares about above his own physical desires.

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Name : Julianna-C, Gender : F, Race : Hispanic/Latino (may be any race), Age : 26, City : Santa Clara, State : CA, Country : United States, Occupation : Systems Analyst, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class, 

[Jimmy]

That’s a tough one – because you are right – he’d probably lie…but if you suspect it – it’s also probably true and his actions do directly effect you. I would suggest you move on to a better candidate for a long term relationship. I’m gay, and you’d be suprised how many married guys hit on us because their wives can’t satisfy some ‘need’ – I avoid them like the plague. I know it won’t be easy – BUT YOU deserve better…

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Name : Jimmy, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Gay, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Christian, Age : 46, City : Grand Rapids, State : MI, Country : United States, Occupation : sales, Education level : 2 Years of College, Social class : Middle class, 

[Josh]

I think you need to re-examine what you are saying here. Regardless of what sexual orientation your man is, you are at risk for sexually transmitted diseases and HIV infection. In fact, since women have the fastest growing rate of HIV infection, if your man is truly a “womanizer,” that may be a cause of great risk if he is having or has had unprotected sex with anyone. Both of you should get tested for a whole range of STDs.

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Name : Josh, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Gay, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Jewish, Age : 22, City : Washington, State : DC, Country : United States, Occupation : Queer Activist, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class, 

[Lisa-B]

Do it this way. Stick a carrot up his ass. If he smiles, he is bi. Worked with two of my ex-boyfriends.

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Name : Lisa-B, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : American Indian, Religion : Baptist, City : Magee, State : MS, Country : United States, Education level : Over 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class, 

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