[J Prado]

Most people would say yes. It's, at least, a little bit weird. In the end, it depends on you. I wouldn't do it.

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Name : J Prado, Gender : M, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Jewish, Age : 27, City : Los Angeles, State : CA Country : United States, Education level : Over 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class, 

[J Prado]

A month ago, while my husband was out of town, I ran across and read several pages of his diary. He details some very graphic sexual encounters he had with women immediately before we began dating about five years ago. I feel ashamed to have violated his trust by reading this material, but I was shocked and can't get what he wrote out of my mind. (YEAH OKAY, IF YOU'RE GOING TO VIOLATE SOMEONE'S TRUST, EVEN IF IT IS YOUR HUSBANDS, AND ARE AFRAID OF WHAT YOU FIND, YOU DESERVE IT. PRIVATE IS PRIVATE, THAT MEANS, DON'T SNOOP! IF HE WANTS YOU TO SEE WHAT'S IN HIS DIARY, HE'D LET YOU READ IT.) I don't do the things in bed he obviously wants and enjoyed with these women, and I wouldn't feel comfortable with most of it (mostly oral sex and being tied up). (JUST BECAUSE HE DID IT WITH OTHER WOMEN DOESN'T MEAN HE WANTS IT WITH YOU. HOW CAN YOU ASSUME THAT YOU DON'T DO WHAT HE 'OBVIOUSLY' WANTS?) I've always thought I pleased him but now I do not know. (AND IF YOU WOULDN'T HAVE READ HIS DIARY, YOU'D STILL THINK THAT BECAUSE HE HASN'T INDICATED DIFFERENT, HAS HE?) Should I tell him that I've violated his trust? (UP TO YOU, CONSENSUS HERE IS NO)Do I have a right to feel upset that he shared such intense intimacy with other women, even though it was before we met? (TECHINCALLY, YOU HAVE A 'RIGHT' TO FEEL UPSET WHENEVER YOU WANT, ON THE OTHER HAND, THOSE THINGS HAVE ABSOLUTELY NOTHING TO DO WITH YOU) Do I need to do those things in bed to make my husband happy? (PERHAPS YOU SHOULD ASK !!!HIM!!! SINCE HE'S THE ONE YOU'RE MARRIED TO, NOT ANYONE HERE) I would like to hear from men and women who have some experience in this. Thank you for helping me. (YOUR WELCOME) Here's the deal. You need to communicate with your husband about how each of you feel about your sex life. No one on here can tell you what he's going to think, ONLY he can tell you that. Everyone likes different things during sex. And sex is different with different partners, so perhaps he doesn't mind if you guys don't perform oral sex, or that there isn't any rope play, or whatever it is that you do or don't do. Bottom line, ask HIM what he likes, not people on here.

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Name : J Prado, Gender : M, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Jewish, Age : 27, City : Los Angeles, State : CA Country : United States, Education level : Over 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class, 

[J Prado]

Just a small comment, most (if not all) porn films do not have fluffers. That's just a myth.

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Name : J Prado, Gender : M, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Jewish, Age : 27, City : Los Angeles, State : CA Country : United States, Education level : Over 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class, 

[J Prado]

Long and pleasurable. I'm not sure whether I was really ready, or that my partner was an amazing person, or what, but it lasted for a while, and it was really great for both of us (it wasn't her first time).

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Name : J Prado, Gender : M, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Jewish, Age : 27, City : Los Angeles, State : CA Country : United States, Education level : Over 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class, 

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