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  • in reply to: Caught my beau cheating… #28984

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    Yes, it is a common responce for bth men and women who get caught. Actually, I have found that if one person is accusing the other person in the relatonship of cheating it is the accuser who is usually cheating.

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    Name : Don, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Episcopalian, Age : 31, City : Columbia, State : SC, Country : United States, Education level : Over 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class, 
    in reply to: Surprises in Husband’s Diary #43639

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    If you have not tried what you listed, why not let him go down on you (or you on him.) I personally love to go down but have found some women feel a little unconfortable with it, at first. However, once they let go of the fear (taboo? control?) they really like being pleased and pleasing their partner. I believe you do not have the right to feel upset about what happened before you came along. It is unrealistic to stress over anything prior to you entering into his life. Why not be upset over who he first slept with? I would not tell him about the violation of trust, and I would not do it again. Maybe tell him later after you have tried this stuff out. I don’t think you NEED to do these things, but why not try? The tying-up thing is a matter of trust and giving up control. It is not easy for most people.

    Most of this stuff is about control and letting go of your and his hang-ups. We all have some hang-ups. What led you to look into his diary? A trust issue, or curiosity? I would love to hear more about this, as I have some trust issues that recently came up.

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    Name : Don, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Episcopalian, Age : 31, City : Columbia, State : SC, Country : United States, Education level : Over 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class, 
    in reply to: Am I gay if I am around gay people? #24553

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    If I hang out with women, am I a woman? If I hang out with left-handed people, am I a lefty? Tell these other people to drop dead. I do. If you are comfortable and the people you hang out with are comfortable, then let it be.

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    Name : Don, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Episcopalian, Age : 31, City : Columbia, State : SC, Country : United States, Education level : Over 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class, 
    in reply to: Trains too cozy for men? #28244

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    That is the ‘I’m not gay seat’. Also, it is done for elbow room as well as leg room. We (most of us) also do the same thing in urinals, really.

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    Name : Don, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Episcopalian, Age : 31, City : Columbia, State : SC, Country : United States, Education level : Over 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class, 
    in reply to: Helping out … or backing off? #40164

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    I often have this dilemma at work and in other parts of life. I usually simply ask ‘need some help?’ or ‘can I help you with that?’ I just try not to make a big deal out of it. Sometimes I get nailed for it, sometimes I get thanks. either way I do not let it affect me for more than a few seconds. I have had problems opening a door with my arms full of groceries.

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    Name : Don, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Episcopalian, Age : 31, City : Columbia, State : SC, Country : United States, Education level : Over 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class, 
    in reply to: Can’t Find the Shower Adjust #40384

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    Is sounds to me like you might have a small split in your urethra. (spelled) does this happen after sex (or some other activity)? sometimes after sex small amounts of seamen get left in the urethra and make partial blockages. when the urine dissolves the clog the problem is fixed. I had this happen periodically after vigorous sex or a night of lots of sex.

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    Name : Don, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Episcopalian, Age : 31, City : Columbia, State : SC, Country : United States, Education level : Over 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class, 
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