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Porn is as important as personal hygiene. You could survive without it, but why would you want to? It makes personal release a little more fun as well. If you have a problem with guys looking at porn, then you have a problem. All guys look at porn, and the internet was made For porn. So quit your bitching, because he won’t quit jerkin until his dingy quits working.
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Name : DorgoDorato, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : Other Pacific Islander, Religion : Atheist, City : Kansas City, State : MO, Country : United States, Education level : Over 4 Years of College, Social class : Upper middle class,I wouldn’t stop. Men instinctively crave sexual variety and porn satisfies. It heightens fantasy during masturbation — which is the point of porn, anyway — and it’s a nice aid when you want to get off without working too hard for it. Abuse of porn (like anything else) can be a problem. But, just as social drinking isn’t the same as alcoholism, porn, in moderation, has a healthy place in the masturbation side of men’s sex lives.
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Name : David-A, Gender : M, Race : White/Caucasian, Age : 40, City : Mission Viejo, State : CA, Country : United States, Occupation : Writer, Education level : Over 4 Years of College, Social class : Upper middle class,I think that if it would bother my partner, I would throw it out. If it’s not something you share together, then I would not have a problem throwing away magazines, videos, deleting files ,etc. However, what she doesn’t know won’t hurt her, so I’d probably grab a quick peek if a friend had a Hustler lying around his house.
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Name : Joe, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : Hispanic/Latino (may be any race), Religion : Catholic, Age : 33, City : Los Angeles, State : CA, Country : United States, Occupation : Driver, Education level : High School Diploma, Social class : Middle class,Unless the porn is getting in the way of a healthy relationship, it should not matter whether a partner wants to look at it. Porn can be a very healthy way for men to be monogomous and yet not feel the need to cheat. If the man is made to feel guilty for looking at porn he will leave, or worse, cheat on you. Porn can be something that both partners can enjoy together. Besides, maybe one reason that the sex is so good is because of moves he learned watching porn!
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Name : B23450, Gender : M, Race : White/Caucasian, Age : 25, City : San Diego, State : CA, Country : United States, Education level : Over 4 Years of College,Ah yes, guys and porn. My future husband loves to surf porn, and when we first got together I would look at it with him although I didn’t get ‘turned on’ by it. We too have a great sex life, and he never compares me to the girls in the videos. So I don’t have a problem with it. I no longer watch it with him – but when he comes to bed after surfing for a while I know it is me that he wants, not these imaginary women, so no one is being harmed. In fact it enhances our lovemaking. I have seen research that shows that men really respond to visual stimulation – ie, magazines, videos and strip shows – but it certainly doesn’t mean that they want to sleep with those women. If you are secure in your relationship with your partner, I would let it go – otherwise he may feel obligated to hide it, which would create a bigger rift in your relationship than an understanding that he can look but not touch (and that you don’t even want to look). Believe me, he will love you all the more for it!
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Name : Samantha, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Christian, Age : 36, City : Woodstock, State : NA, Country : Canada, Occupation : Secretary, Education level : 2 Years of College, Social class : Middle class,No, probably not. It would bother her for me to look at it and it would bother me to not be able to look at it. I would definitely cut down on how much I looked at though. I never used porn as a substitute for sex. I don’t have a good enough imagination or supply of LSD for that to work. I just used it for the fun of itself. The same way that just because I enjoyed sex doesn’t mean that I would want to swear of oral sex. I do however understand you complaint and I sympathize, but I would never ask a partner to stop fantasizing about Johnny Depp or Brad Pitt. I think that this is similar. That is just my opinion though and is probably not representative of most men.
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Name : DanielPfalmer, Gender : Male, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Agnostic, Age : 22, City : Fairbanks, State : AK, Country : United States, Occupation : Student, Education level : Over 4 Years of College, Social class : Lower middle class,YOu are wrong to assume that women “in shape” always make better lovers & that fat women can’t perform well in bed. Aside from the physical aspect of “performing,” what makes a a good lover in and out of bed is someone who is unselfish, loving, affectionate and wants to please his/her partner. All the gymnastic screwing in the world can’t compensate for lack of that. I am a white woman, attractive and have been overweight most of my adult life. I stay well-proportioned (smaller waist) with exercise. My boyfriend, 25 years younger, pursued me! He is very thin. He loves my ample, rounded breasts and behind. Though I can’t do aerobics like Jane Fonda, I am just as frisky, active and full of stamina as I was when thinner and younger. Not quite as agile, but compensate with great gus
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Name : ShirleyAvery, Gender : F, Disability : none, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Jewish, Age : 52, City : st. louis, State : MO, Country : United States, Occupation : writer, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class,
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