[A]

My wife and I go to strip bars pretty regularly. We just go to regular strip places, although we have a favorite (best college girls!). I guess we wouldn’t go back to anywhere that seemed hostile, but that’s never happened, strippers love us, and the men there usually just ignore us like they do the other guys. I have heard that obviously gay women are sometimes more welcome in strip clubs than straight-looking women, who are sometimes assumed to be hookers. Stripping is offensive to some women, but it isn’t to me.

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Name : A, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Lesbian, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Atheist, Age : 24, City : Alexandria, State : VA, Country : United States, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Lower middle class, 

[Dina M.]

Yes bi and lesbians do go to strip bars. Which one depends on the girl. Some clubs (in the past for sure, present time may be better) would check because they thought the woman may be a prostitute trying to find some clients. Most boyztowns (section for LGBT community) have strip joints. It’s a little bit uncomfortable to be a woman around intoxicated men at a strip club and not be working there

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[Moira]

In Tucson, there is really no special strip club for bi or lesbian women. Your best bet, if you’d like to enjoy a few lap dances, is to go to a club like Ten’s or TD’s East, with a guy friend, and ask for a table dance whenever a girl approaches your friend. The idea of stripping and dancing for money may be offensive to some women, but not to me…and I consider myself a very liberated individual. What’s not to like about admiring a beautiful woman close-up? I often go to various strip clubs with my husband. I also stripped at a club for about 6 months a few years ago because I was curious about what the stripping/topless industry was all about. I have a master’s degree–and a brain…and still find nothing objectionable about topless clubs.

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[Bi-Dancer]

Some lesbians/bi women do come in, but not too many, at least not in the cities where I’ve worked. Some strip clubs don’t allow unescorted (meaning: no man) women in. That’s not because of the lesbian thing, what they don’t want are prostitutes coming in soliciting the guys. It makes sense if you think about it. There are not strip clubs specifically for women – they’d go broke, as women just do not spend money on sex workers like men do. There are some serious lesbian-feminists who might be offended, but not so many… But sometimes in bigger cities with a good sized big gay/lesbian population, there will be special parties put on by/for lesbians, with strippers. I’ve danced at shows like that, it’s fun. But it’s unlikely you’d hear about them unless you were ‘in the loop’ of lesbian events – reading the gay papers, looking at flyer in gay bars, etc.

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[D31820]

I danced in strip, or ‘gentleman’s clubs,’ for four years. While I do not know of any lesbian specific clubs in my city I know that some exist in other cities. Yes bisexual and lesbians go to the clubs. As a matter of fact I have worked at clubs that cater to women on certain nights of the week. Also guys I am sorry to say it is true that a lot of dancers are lesbians or at least bisexual themselves. I guess that they are like any other group of people, some find it offensive and some don’t.

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[Stacey-A]

As a bisexual woman, I can say that I enjoy going to strip clubs. I have lesbian and bisexual friends who also do, and ones that do not (just as there are heterosexuals who enjoy strip clubs and those that do not). I generally go to a ‘Gentleman’s Club’, since they are easily found, but I won’t go to just any one since I find some of them sleazy and distasteful (such as in their decor, the way they treat their dancers, or the atmosphere they present). Rarely, you can find strip clubs tailored to entertaining a lesbian and bisexual audience, but they are few and far between. More often, a gay and lesbian nightclub might host a ladies’ night and feature female dancers. The idea of stripping and dancing for money may be offensive to some lesbian or bisexual women, but not to all- it really depends on how they view sex and their own sexuality and whether in their views they find stripping acceptable. Interestingly enough, most of the dancers I have met are lesbian or bisexual.

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[Anika]

I have danced for eight years in Portland, Ore. We have more srtip clubs per capita here than anywhere in the United States. As far as I know there is one lesbian bar in town here that has dancers one night a week, that’s it. Lots of women come down to the bars but I have seen maybe three ‘hard core butch lesbians’ in clubs in all of my eight years.

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[Marianne]

I can only speak for myself. As a butch lesbian, I think women lovers stripping for me is very sexy. As for straight women strippers, who get off on stripping for men/money, I don’t find that so sexy to be around. Women who are into strippers generally go to men’s clubs because that’s usually the only option. At the lesbian bar here in Portland, there’s stripper night once a month or so, and those women really enjoy doing it for women, so it feels a lot more fun.

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[Jenny]

I am a lesbian and have been to a strip club maybe twice with a group of friends. To me, it was just as much of a turn on, as it was a turn off. My lesbian friends have a variety of opinions on stripclubs. Some love them, some are deeply offended by them. I think that among the lesbian population, you’ll find just as wide a variety of opinions on the subject as you will among straight women. I have also met a couple of women who strip for a living and they have commented that they do enjoy it when women come into the club – women are much more sensual, less aggressive and offensive, and a nice change of pace from the men. I don’t know of any strip clubs that are specifically for women. Sometimes lesbian bars will hire a woman dancer to come into their bar for a ‘show’. Those that are interested watch/participate; those that aren’t shoot pool.

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[Beth]

This really can’t be applied to all lesbian or bisexual women, because it really depends on the personal feelings of the individual. I’m a bisexual woman who loves stripclubs, but I have many lesbian and bisexual friends who don’t like them because of personal opinions on stripping. There aren’t any clubs specifically marketed to lesbians, but I know of many gay clubs that have run nights for women, and also of many burlesque troupes that are queer-oriented or do special shows depending on the audience.

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[Melissa]

The answer to your question would be the same answer to ‘Is the whole idea of stripping and dancing for money offensive to women in general’ Lesbians don’t go by a list of beliefs and values that they all must follow. We are as unique and everyone else. I know a lot of lesbians who find it offensive, but I also know a lot who just find it plain old hot! Every lesbian has their own set of beliefs and values, just like everyone else in this world! So to answer your question…everyone of us is different. Everyone has there own reasons for liking or disliking it! Were not all crazy feminists!

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[Chris-M32158]

I’m a lesbian, and my girlfriend of 8 years and I have never been to a strip club and have no desire to go to one. We have nothing against people who go, but it just seems kinda sleezy to us…doesn’t turn us on. However, we both know lesbians who do like to go with their straight male friends. I think it’s the same with lesbians as it is for anyone else. Some people like it, some people don’t.

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[Lynne]

Well, Annie this gets a little complicated… Yes, some lesbians go to straight men’s strip clubs. In fact many strippers are lesbians or bisexual, althought you would probably never know it. There are also strip clubs for lesbians (mostly in larger cities) and sometimes the same strip bars you frequent will have special private events for lesbians-only. There are also plenty of lesbians who think the whole idea is demeaning, disgusting, etc. Like straight women, we come in all types.

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[Sandie]

Yes, lesbians and bisexual women go to strip clubs. Usually to ‘gentleman’s clubs’ where women are welcome, which most are. I have not seen or heard of a strip club ‘just for lesbians’, there are some gay clubs which sometimes feature a special night as a strip club. It may be hard to believe but I have met many women who are strippers in the ‘gentleman’s clubs’ who are actually lesbians! I am sure that there are some lesbians (as there are straight men) who are offended by the idea of stripping and dancing for money.

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[Erik]

I know many couples with bi-sexual women. They do enjoy going to clubs for various reasons. Some go because they find the environment stimulating. They then share this level of arousal together when they get home. Many do go in hopes to pick up a woman, but their chances are about the same as a single man picking up a woman there. I am wondering the reasoning behind your question. Are you looking for a lesbian encounter? If so, there are many things to consider. Do you want girl/girl only? Can your husband participate and to what level? Does you husband support the fulfillmet of this fantasy? You need to make sure you have communicated well with your husband first. Then, I would recommend browsing through swing clubs on line. I have never heard of a lesbian strip club, but the vast majority of females at swing clubs are bisexual. They are also more discrete than exotic dancers.

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