[kara26749]

Laura, I had an experience similar to yours except probably with more drugs and only slightly less sex. I am currently finishing a doctoral degree and am married to a wonderful man who has had his share of wild times also. You should not feel pressured to tell a new relationship anything that you feel uncomfortable with – remember, the experiences you have had have made you the person you are today. As you become more intimate with someone, situations may arise where you feel like discussing some of your past experiences. Then again, you might not ever feel like sharing. I have told my husband some of my stories and he has shared some of his also, but there are some areas of our pasts we have never touched on and prefer not to. Generally, when it comes to sexual experiences we agree not to share them because we feel like we should be focusing on OUR relationship and OUR sex life, not our pasts. Basically I think it comes down to compassion – even if you (or your husband) has done some things they are not proud of, it is NOW that is important – the relationship you share NOW, and the person you are NOW. While explaining parts of your past may help your significant other to understand you better, I don’t think it is imperative that you share it ALL.

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Name : kara26749, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : native american/caucasian, Religion : Christian, Age : 25, City : denver, State : CO, Country : United States, Education level : Over 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class, 

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