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I have seen some very attractive women in wheelchairs, and I have never made a move on them, even though I thought about it. There are so many women who are not in wheelchairs. I think you will have be the assertive one here, to let men know it is OK, and that you are still a woman. You’ll have to school people that a relationship with a person in a wheelchair does not amount to taking advantage of them. Also, sex is a very important of a relationship, and unfortunately, men think a disabled woman can’t perform. It takes a real strong man who can disregard the possible teasing and talking that other people will give him. That’s unfortunate because it will stop a lot of weaker men … even myself. I hate to admit it. I should be a bigger person than that, and really, I think I can be. Don’t give up. It is not you, it is just the way society views the disabled as helpless. We have a lot to learn. Thus, you have a lot to teach.
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Name : Tony, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : Black/African American, Religion : Baptist, Age : 45, City : CINCINNATI, State : OH, Country : United States, Occupation : MANUF 'G, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Upper middle class,Black people grease their hair because we have very dry hair, due to the fact that the hair shaft is flat and does not retain moisture as easily. As a white person, your hair shaft is normally round and retains moisture. Everyone’s head secretes oil to keep the hair and scalp moist. Most white people do not like to have oil in their hair, whereas black people need to keep the scalp oiled to keep the hair from becoming brittle and breaking off when combing, styling, getting straightening/perms, etc. Both items are a matter of culture as well as need, and you will find according to where you are in this country, as well as around the world, that culture plays a great part in how a person manages his or her hair. In some cultures, hair is extremely important, and it is a big part of their identity, whereas in other cultures hair is of little value. You will also find that white people will wash their hair every day, whereas black people will wash their hair once or twice a week. To get a better idea, just take a trip to black hair salon and tell them you are doing a report on hair. They will be more than happy to answer all your questions.
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Name : Tony, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : Black/African American, Religion : Baptist, Age : 45, City : CINCINNATI, State : OH, Country : United States, Occupation : MANUF 'G, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Upper middle class,Unfortunately a lot of women I have seen, just do not take good care of those fake nail, and as they grow away from the cuticle, they begin to look even worse. I would just imagine women would want their hands to look their best, while wearing fake nails. To the ladies wearing the very long FAKE NAILS,and the ladies who chew on them, that has to be very unsantitary. There are a lot of health alerts over the use of FAKE NAILS. PLEASE BEWARE, and TAKE CAUTIOUS !!!!
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Name : Tony, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : Black/African American, Religion : Baptist, Age : 45, City : CINCINNATI, State : OH, Country : United States, Occupation : MANUF 'G, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Upper middle class,Believe me only from a distance will they ever look real. You may wish them to look natural, but the simple fact is that they are not, and a lot of people can tell. I can tell just like most ladies can spot a weave in a woman’s hair. Some things are very obvious, but most people are too polite to say anything.
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Name : Tony, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : Black/African American, Religion : Baptist, Age : 45, City : CINCINNATI, State : OH, Country : United States, Occupation : MANUF 'G, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Upper middle class,I DO NO THINK THAT BLACK PEOPLE WHO DO NOT TAKE THE OPPORTUNITY TO LEARN PROPER ENGLISH, SHOULD BE EXCUSED BY TRYING TO USE THE ANSWER OF SPEAKING EBONICS. IT IS A JOKE, AND AN EXCUSE FOR BLACK CHILDREN TO CONTINUE TO LEARN AND USE BROKEN ENGLISH. EBONICS IS SLANG, AND SHOULD STAY A SLANG LANGUAGE. ANYTIME YOU SPEND 12 YEARS LEARNING HOW TO DO ANYTHING, YOU SHOULD BE or BECOME GOOD AT IT. SO THERE IS NO EXCUSE FOR ANYONE TO SPEND 12 YEARS IN SCHOOL, AND CAN’T SPEAK ENGLISH PROPERLY. THERE IS NO EXCUSE!! EVEN IF YOU SAY ENGLISH IS NOT YOUR NATURAL LANGUAGE, THEN LEARN YOUR NATURAL LANGUAGE, AND SPEAK IT WELL. THERE ARE PEOPLE WHO ARE ONLY SECOND GENERATION AMERICANS, AND THEIR PARENTS SPEAK BROKEN ENGLISH, YET THEIR KIDS SPEAK ENGLISH BETTER THAN BLACK FOLKS WHO HAVE BEEN IN AMERICA FOR OVER 100 YEARS. ENGLISH IS THE ONE LANGUAGE THE WORLD LEARNS TO SPEAK AS A SECOND LANGUAGE. AS AN AMERICAN IT SHOULD BE LEARNED AS OUR FIRST LANGUAGE….NOT EBONICS or SLANG. SLANG IS A USES OF ENGLISH THAT UNITE A COMMON GROUP BY THE USE OF IT, WHICH IS USUALLY A WAY TO BE COOL, HIP, and WITH IT…(SLANG MEANING). THE FIRST WAY A PERSON CAN GATHER A FIRST IMPRESSION OF YOU IS YOUR ABILITY TO SPEAK. A PERSON WHO CAN SPEAK WELL IS CONCLUDED TO BE INTELLIGENT, EDUCATED, AND CAN VERBALLY EXPRESS THEMSELVES. GOOD VERBAL SKILL WILL PUT YOU AHEAD IN THE JOB MARKET, AND IS THE KEY TO A LOT OF THINGS IN LIFE. PEOLE WHO SPEAK PROPER ENGLISH, ARE USUALLY TRUSTED MORE, ESPECIALLY IN BUSINESS. BLACK PEOPLE HAVE TO LEARN THAT GOOD VERBAL SKILLS, and SPEAKING PROPER ENGLISH, IS NOT A SIGN OF SELLING OUT, TURNING WHITE, or BEING AN UNCLE TOM. SPEAKING PROPER ENGLISH IS A PLUS, NOT A MINUS …. AND EBONICS IS AN INSULT, TO ALL BLACK FOLKS, FOR IT IS SAYING YOU ARE NOT INTELLIGENT ENOUGH TO LEARN PROPER ENGLISH. EBONICS IS JUST A BUNCH OF, ‘ CRAP.’ tonyfromroselawn3@zoomtown.com CINCINNATI, OHIO U.S.A.
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Name : Tony, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : Black/African American, Religion : Baptist, Age : 45, City : CINCINNATI, State : OH, Country : United States, Occupation : MANUF 'G, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Upper middle class,
