[Tom24088]

I have to disagree with Kristina’s post. ‘it is nobody’s business what you did in your past.’ and ‘your sexuality is yours and yours alone to deal with.’ If you plan on never having a serious relationship, then perhaps this is more true, but there are always excepts. I agree with most of the other replies that your history does not need to be discussed with casual or new relationships. Only if it seems to be getting more involved should it be brought up. You don’t need to go into all the ‘raw’ details and I would encourage you not to, even if asked by a future boyfriend. Depending on how ‘wild’ you were, it could cause other issues. By the time my wife and I married, we knew the general dating history for each other. Here is another thought. Let’s imaging you get married down the road. By being honest and open, you would not have to suffer alone with dealing with any ramifications from your past lifestyle. For example, I’ve read that some women who have had abortions and then later had children will feel guilt about it. Lastly, wouldn’t you want to know the basic dating history for any guy you get serious with? For example, what if he had a child with someone else and doesn’t tell you? Just think of all the complications that could arise.

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Name : Tom24088, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Presbyterian, Age : 37, City : Lancaster, State : PA, Country : United States, Education level : 2 Years of College, Social class : Lower middle class, 

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