[Tina M.]

As a lesbian, I have often wondered the same thing. I am not attracted to women who dress, and sometimes act, like men. In my experience, I have found that those who appear to do this are, many times, not what they appear to be. Many of the most 'butch' women I have known and dated have been the most feminine women I have ever met in my life. It is not about being attracted to someone who tries to dress and look like a man; it is about connecting with another's soul.

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Name : Tina M., Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Lesbian, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Catholic, Age : 32, City : Tulsa, State : OK Country : United States, Occupation : Business Owner, Education level : Over 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class, 

[Tina M.]

Do you know how passionate and loving and intense and emotional a woman can be? It is just those things that make it so wonderful to be with another woman. However, it is just those same things that make it so difficult for two women to be together, too. Still, the good so outweighs the bad; at least for me it does. As far as how if feels when you realize you are a lesbian, it is kind of like a breath of air that you have been struggling to get for a long time and then you finally get it - the relief you feel. That sense of knowing where you belong and who you are is really hard to explain.

I don't have a problem with who I am or letting other people know I'm a lesbian; however, I do not feel that I need to flaunt it around other people. I agree that heterosexuals don't feel like their sexuality defines them, and it should not be a defining characteristic of gays and lesbians - it is not one of mine. I don't walk up to people and say, 'Hi I am Tina and I am a lesbian' - if they ask me, I tell them.

I don't look for anything in a woman, really. I don't go out and 'try to find a woman.' To me, it is not about 'looking' for something or someone, it is about making a connection between two souls. When you feel it, you know, just like in a straight relationship.

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Name : Tina M., Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Lesbian, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Catholic, Age : 32, City : Tulsa, State : OK Country : United States, Occupation : Business Owner, Education level : Over 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class, 

[Tina M.]

I am a lesbian and I wear make-up. As with most women of any sexual orientation, it depends on my mood or what I have planned for the day or night as to whether or not I wear make-up and how much I wear.

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Name : Tina M., Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Lesbian, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Catholic, Age : 32, City : Tulsa, State : OK Country : United States, Occupation : Business Owner, Education level : Over 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class, 

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