[Teddy-T]

I tend to agree in general with the other answerer, that the religious practices that are somewhat meaningless to a non-religious person seem unfair to the Christian husband. While he's not having any religious moments in the wedding, you are, even though neither of you are religious. And by the way, I am Jewish. However, there is one thing that many non-Jews don't understand that you may want to make clear at the wedding: Being Jewish is not just a religion but also an ethnicity (as you clearly understand). You might want to help them understand that some of the Jewish rituals are not too dissimilar from rituals of other ethnic groups (such as Irish dancing) in that they are not really religious in nature.

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