[Stevie27712]

Hey, I’m in the same boat you are, not to the extent, but to the point where i am embarrassed about my past, not just the sex but the drugs and the partying etc. The thing with meeting new guys is this… they don’t NEED to know about your past. The person they will be falling in love with is ‘you now’ not ‘you then’. So there’s no need for you to bring it up yourself… that may either drive him away or want you for the wrong reasons. However, the subject may come up, and most likely will. If ya’ll have just met or have only been seeing each other for a while, you can say something simple like ‘i’d rather not discuss that, I do have a past, but I have grown out of that now’. that would show honesty and also maturity in that you understand how immature your actions were. If the relationship gets deeper, maybe even to the point of marriage, then may be a good time to explain about the abortions. That is something any husband would need to know, especialy if ya’ll are thinking about having children. Never do you need to say how many people you have had sex with, because that is honestly none of his business. He may know that you were a bit wild, but the details don’t need to be discussed. However, if you have had sex with so many people, getting tested is very important… before you ever get in a relationship again… and if you do then your partner should definitely know. but like i said details dont need to be discussed. The all time most important thing in any relationship is trust, so if you lie to him about these things, you’ve already started it out on the wrong foot.

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Name : Stevie27712, Gender : F, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Christian, Age : 20, City : Atlanta, State : GA, Country : United Kingdom, Occupation : student, 

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