[Sheryl Sukdolak]

Men are visual beings. They like to look. I don’t see the problem unless he’s spending hours at a time looking. Does the fact that he’s looking at white men with black women bother you, as though he’s comparing these black women to you? I think it’s more curiosity than anything else. Some men will pretend they think porn is bad simply to appease their wives. To decide about whether this is ‘harmful,’ think about these questions: Are the pictures of women in demeaning roles, as in being tied up and being whipped? Is he spending hours looking at the pictures while ignoring you? Do you consider your sex life adequate? Are the men and women of legal age? Have you talked to your husband about this bothering you? Open communication is a must, especially if this is something you just can’t live with. I disagree that if someone looks at naked pictures online, there’s something missing in the marriage; it could be that the wife isn’t insecure and figures nothing online can be a threat. Unless the porn is becoming an obsession, it may have to be a Mars/Venus thing, in which men like to look and women are more into the emotions. Then again, there are women who like to look, also. Sometimes pornography is all in the eye of the beholder.

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Name : Sheryl Sukdolak, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : Black/African American, Religion : Catholic, Age : 39, City : Warner Robins, State : GA, Country : United States, Occupation : school social services, Education level : Over 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class, 

[Sheryl Sukdolak]

Actually it’s not silly to say the color of skin affects what colors look good, or perhaps I should say better on someone depending on the skin tone. I think also the shade of purple matters. I think darker shades of purple look best on darker skin tones. This may just be personal taste, but I see a parallel between your question and the fact that certain shades of makeup look better on certain skin tones; otherwise the fairest white skin and the darkest skin tones would or could wear the same shade of makeup and look just as good. I certainly think the winter/fall/spring/summer hues that makeup comes in justifies this opinion as to different skin tones looking best in certain shades of color. Certain colors complement certain skin tones better. I think with all the different shades of skin people have, it’s not really a black/white issue with regard to wearing purple (or any other color) but more an issue of your skin tone. Deeper, richer colors seem to bring out the best in darker skin, and of course the opposite is true for lighter skin. I’m sure we all wear clothes in many different colors, but aren’t there certain colors that seem to add a glow to or complement your complexion more so than others?

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Name : Sheryl Sukdolak, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : Black/African American, Religion : Catholic, Age : 39, City : Warner Robins, State : GA, Country : United States, Occupation : school social services, Education level : Over 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class, 

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