[Serene28054]

I am a 44-year-old woman looking forward to turning 45 in a few months. I am constantly hit on by younger men. I have dated a few who have their heads together. No, it's not all about sex. The ones who are trolling for sex don't get far with me, basically because you have to be able to make love to my mind first. However, the ones who I have dated look at older women as widening the dating pool. I am also not looking and will not become involved with someone who is just looking for notches on their belt, or wants to be raised again. Younger than me doen't mean young enough to be my child - they've been raised in an era in which they are not intimidated by a woman with education, her own wealth or possessions.

Let's face it: turning 40 did something really beautiful for you. In my case, I wasn't as driven to succeed in business, had completed my child rearing and was more relaxed in mind and spirit and felt more appreciative of myself and others. Some very smart younger men could be picking up on that. I have been told by younger men open to dating older women that that is the quality that they appreciate most: A woman who knows who she is and is comfortable with that. I am enjoying myself more now than I ever have.

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Name : Serene28054, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : Black/African American, Religion : Christian, Age : 44, City : Chandler, State : AZ Country : United States, Occupation : Self Employed, Education level : 2 Years of College, Social class : Middle class, 

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