[Scott-A28175]

Keeping in mind that your question generalizes to all white men and all black women: to me, black women are more scary than black men. At least with black men I have in common the experience of maleness. Black (and Hispanic) women seem to me to be more unpredictable and more hysterical than white or Asian women. I can't say I would never date a black woman, but black women are not on my radar screen at this point.

There is an implication in your question that men only want a specific set of features in the women they date. Dating, to me, is not like choosing a car. I see that you are young. Perhaps you choose dates by criteria like hair and skin color. My main concern in all interpersonal relationships is connection: how do I connect with this person? I understand that this takes the power out of your hands, and out of the hands of any one person; neither you nor the other can any longer manipulate yourself to get the man or woman you want if this is the criteria. On the other hand, it frees both parties up to genuine relatedness.

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Name : Scott-A28175, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Bisexual, Race : White/Caucasian, Age : 42, City : Seattle, State : WA Country : United States, Education level : 2 Years of College, Social class : Lower middle class, 

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