[Sammi B.]

I do not think it is nice or acceptable to treat people that way. Your friend was really rude. I always say treat people as you would want to be treated. Suppose the girl in the club got up enough nerve to say hi to someone she wanted to talk to, and he did the same to her? She would probably feel very bad. There are polite ways to let someone know you want to be left alone or are not interested. Most folks can tell, by your actions, whether you are a smart (polite and respectful) person or an ignorant (rude and disrespectful) person. First impressions are lasting ones.

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Name : Sammi B., Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : Black/African American, Religion : New Age/Metaphysical, Age : 35, City : Boston, State : MA, Country : United States, Occupation : Office Manager, Education level : 2 Years of College, Social class : Middle class, 

[Sammi B.]

Jeff, I think you need to relax. I think that the majority of folks are struggling to make things happen in their lives and aren’t too concerned with thinking too much about others (most of the time). If you are really worried about how you come off to others, ask a close male friend who’s known you a while what he thinks. Then watch how men of different backgrounds interact with one another and select what behaviors would work for you and model yourself after that, adding your own personal twist. Good luck (you seem all right to me)!

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