[Leo]

Yes, he deserves to know…but not until the relationship is actually a relationship. During the courtship phase (dating), I don’t know anybody who wants to be bombarded with an overload of bad news (and let’s face facts, here. ‘Honey, I’ve slept with 20 guys’ is usually considered bad news). However, once you two have hit the exclusive point, and prior to the relationship becoming sexual, it’s almost mandatory (and only right) to let him know that there might be cause for concern. You’ve changed in the last year or two. Considering the two abortions, you were obviously not practicing safe sex. You’re still open to many potential problems. As a result, so is he. If he’s true, he’ll stay. He’ll wait it out, hope for the best, and you two will be very happy together. If he freaks out and bails, that’s just the way it goes. It’s one of the consequences of the ‘wild life’. Either way, though, he deserves to know.

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Name : Leo, City : Wernersville, State : PA, Country : United States, 

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