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Is it pleasurable? You’ll get a different answer with different reasons from every woman. It’s only been within the past five years that I’ve realized I can ‘tune in’ to the sensations in my vagina. I’ve had three lovers in that time, one of which had a very powerful ejaculation. I could feel it, but it didn’t really do much for me. It merely meant the end of our romp.
My last boyfriend had a very watery ejacuation. I could not feel it, and it generally tended to be very messy. My current boyfriend’s penis swells before he ejaculates. I can feel his ejacuation, and it has, on occasion, been the cause of my orgasm. I’m not certain this progression was entirely due to the differences in the men. I’ve explored my sexuality in the last five years and have come to enjoy the mental and emotional aspects of a healthy sex life. My boyfriend’s ejaculation excites me in more than just a physical way.
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Name : Kerri, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Age : 23, City : Chicago suburbs, State : IL, Country : United States, Occupation : Government/Clerical, Education level : High School Diploma, Social class : Middle class,I was in a nearly five-year relationship with a man who had cheated. I found myself facing a similar situation, asking similar questions. Our sex life (if you could call it that) had hit a brick wall. Sex was infrequent, and always very rigid and rushed. I told myself that we just needed some variety – some spice. I told him that I wanted to try a threesome. I also agreed to exhibitionism. We rented porn videos, purchased toys and visited sex clubs.
Though I now have many great stories to tell at parties, none of these things re-ignited the flame in our love life. In fact, I found myself to be increasingly insecure and unhappy. In October 1999 I made the frightening decision to become a single mother. It’s not a choice I regret. I have come to acknowledge the fact that I never really wanted to spice up our relationship. When he cheated, I felt the relationship slip from me. In a desperate attempt to regain his affections, I tried to change my morals and interests so I could be the type of woman he would be attracted to. It never worked. It wasn’t a good time for him to be in a committed relationship.
I’m not saying you should leave your boyfriend. What I’m asking you to do is explore your desires. Decide what you are and are not comfortable with, and stick to it. Don’t be pressured into something you’re not ready for. Since your trust in this man has been tested, I suggest starting out small. Role-playing only requires the two of you and a few outfits and props. Or you could purchase a few naughty lingerie items and surprise him with a new look. Toys are fun (as I’ve come to realize in my current relationship). I’d start with toys for you that you let him use on you. Then you could see if you’re comfortable with using toys on him (fake vaginas and whatnot). Pornos are fun to watch together. In addition to being erotic, they’re also pretty funny. I recommend Buffy the Vampire Layer, XXX Trek and The Three Musketeers (queer king and all).
If you find yourself becoming uncomfortable, you need to address these feelings with your mate. Ignoring them will make them worse. Don’t be afraid to ask your mate to make certain promises to you. I purchased a porn DVD recently and asked my boyfriend to promise that it would stay at my apartment and we would only watch it together. I’ve seen him stare at it longingly, but he respects my request.
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Name : Kerri, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Age : 23, City : Chicago suburbs, State : IL, Country : United States, Occupation : Government/Clerical, Education level : High School Diploma, Social class : Middle class,The same question could be asked of any sexual act. Personally, I rather enjoy it. My orgasms tend to be more intense; however, due to the unfortunate discomfort afterward, it’s only an occasional indulgence.
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Name : Kerri, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Age : 23, City : Chicago suburbs, State : IL, Country : United States, Occupation : Government/Clerical, Education level : High School Diploma, Social class : Middle class,
