[Jason]

First of all, I’m glad you are in a place where you feel good about yourself again. Next, please get tested. I, too, had my wild phase in my 20’s and was fortunate not to contract anything. But if you are infected with any STD’s you need to know (for your health, for any future sexual partner’s, and for any future child’s). If you test positive for anything you MUST tell any sexual partner before sexual activity occurs. If you are negative, then you have the luxury of time. Just as you don’t tell strangers your deep secrets, you don’t need to spill all on a first date. But when you do find a true intimacy, be sure to be honest. And early on honesty can be: ‘I have some things in my past, but I don’t feel ready to talk about them yet’. I’ve never held a girl’s past against her. But I have held their lies to me against them. Good luck.

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Name : Jason, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Agnostic, Age : 34, City : San Diego, State : CA, Country : United States, Education level : Over 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class, 

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