[J. McCutcheon]

Laura, you’ve touched on a a subject that many people find tricky. Having lived ‘the wild life’, you may feel that your new reality is fragile, or that you might lose someone you feel attracted to if they knew about your past. This is a normal reaction, rest assured. When I was in college, I began a relationship with a young lady that did become physical. Through mutual friends I discovered that she also had a ‘past’ that included multiple lovers. She was reluctant to tell me about this, because she truly valued the relationship she had with me. After some time, I gently let her know that I was aware I was not her first partner, and that she was under no pressure to talk about her past. I told her that when she was ready, she would tell me on her own. If you find a ‘significant other’ that you want to develope a serious relationship with, and that person truly cares about you, then the relationship should be able to survive a few ‘revelations’. It’s up to you of course, but consider the impact on the relationship if that person were to find out about your past life via the grapevine and not from your own lips. Just a thought to consider.

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Name : J. McCutcheon, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Lutheran, Age : 50, City : Deerfield, State : IL, Country : United States, Occupation : Engineer, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class, 

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