[J. French]

I get a little impatient with men who whine about what a great catch they are and why can’t they find a good woman. They hardly ever give enough information about their situation to get a good response. Are you employed, a hunchback, or in jail? That could be a factor. How do you define ‘good woman’, and what do you want her for? Or they’re doing it to get encouragement, or even dates. The responses you do get are even more sickening: ‘Hang in there, little soldier! Join a club and Miss Right will find her way to you soon!’ Well, here’s a different kind of answer: you’re not as nice as you think you are. No one likes to think of themselves as mean, petty, shallow, or anything negative at all, so obviously if we can’t find dates it’s everyone else’s fault. And while sorting out for yourself exactly what you want in a relationship can give you a lot of attractive confidence, if your expectations read something like: ‘I want my wife to the perfect woman for me! Smart and deep, yet beautiful, too! And when we meet, it will be just like magic! She’ll know, and I’ll know, just like love at first sight, but better,’ you might want to lower your standards just a tich. In the meantime, check out a website called http://www.heartlessbitches.com. They have a lot more to say about ‘nice guys’ and where they’re going wrong than I could fit in my answer.

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Name : J. French, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Christian, Age : 24, City : Houston, State : TX, Country : United States, Occupation : unemployed, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Lower class, 

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