[Greg]

I was wondering if someone would ask this. In the gay community, penis size is a way used (sometimes unconsciously) to answer the question, ‘Why don’t you date Asian guys?’ This is used by other gay Asians as much as it is by white and minority gay men. It stems from the sexualization of racism and internal racism within the gay community.

But is it true? The answer is, it depends. Penis size is determined for the most part by the same factors that determine height. East Asians, due to hundreds of social, cultural and nutritional factors, tend to be shorter, ergo their penises are smaller. Think about it: if a 5’4″ East Asian guy (or any guy, for that matter) was packing a 7″ member, that would be pretty bizarre, don’t you think? But in the case of a lot of Asian Americans, who for various nutritional reasons have overcome the height factor, being ‘hung’ is as much a luck of the draw as it is for any other race. On average, if a guy is as tall as you are, chances are his penis is just as big, regardless of race. Being East Asian doesn’t mean anything. Take gay porn star Brandon Lee, who shatters every myth about the small and Asian stereotype (he’s bigger than most every guy he works with).

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[Greg]

I feel this is a tricky question. For the most part, I feel this isn’t an issue. People are attracted to various other people for many many reasons, and if you are attracted to white guys moreso than black guys (despite being black) it’s your choice, whether it be because of a particular feature you find more endearing, attractive, or whatever. There can be certain problems, though. I’m white, but to be honest, I prefer Asian guys. I don’t know why. It’s not because of anything like they’re ‘exotic’ or anything that a lot of white guys like about Asian girls, but I just find Asian guys more attractive most of the time. The problem is, people like me have often been under attack as so-called ‘Rice Queens,’ and having fetishistic notions about ‘white dominance over the Asian race.’ Personally, I don’t feel this describes the way I feel, but sad to say, I’ve seen it in others. A lot of white gays and gay Asians don’t date other Asians because of sexualized racism and the media-touted idea that ‘white’ in America is the standard of beauty (e.g., when was the last time you saw an Asian in A&F’s catalogue?). Then again, some Asians are so rabidly Anti-white (because they take the opposite extreme) that they become so-called ‘sticky rice,’ but sometimes for the same bizzare fetishistic reasons they accuse the white guys of (I’ve met them too). If you ask me, you like who you like, and most people are smart enough to evaluate themselves on their motives for doing so. If you find yourself unhappy in a relationship because you feel you were being the victim of a racist fetish, THEN LEAVE the guy! That is all.

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