Elliott

Forum Replies Created

Viewing 3 posts - 1 through 3 (of 3 total)
  • Author
    Posts
  • in reply to: Black men and oral sex #44442

    Elliott
    Member

    I heard that about oral sex years ago, but I’ve not heard it recently. I thought the stereotype had died, but I guess it hasn’t. I enjoy giving and receiving, and the race of the woman is no issue. For me, the main issue is hygiene. I heard it put well once on one of those ‘Blind Date’ TV shows: The man (who wasn’t black) told his date something like: ‘I’m a diver. And as long as the water is clear, I can stay down until my air runs out.’ I’m with him.

    User Detail :  

    Name : Elliott, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : Black/African American, Religion : Raised Baptist, not agnostic, not a big believer, Age : 37, City : Dallas, State : TX, Country : United States, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class, 
    in reply to: Help in awakening my boyfriend sexually #15704

    Elliott
    Member

    I’m not sure how you define a boring sex life, but I’ll share my experience. I left behind my hangups about sex after dating a woman who didn’t have any hangups. Before I met her, I had problems talking to women about sex. But she was patient and made me comfortable in bed. And she took things into her own hands without asking. I remember she once surprised me by giving me oral sex while I was sleeping. I’ll never forget that. It was the best wakeup I’ve ever had. I guess she wasn’t worried about how I would respond. I’ve always been curious about sex, and I’m pretty open to trying new things. Is your boyfriend the same? And have y’all talked about this? Maybe talking is a good place to start.

    User Detail :  

    Name : Elliott, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : Black/African American, Religion : Raised Baptist, not agnostic, not a big believer, Age : 37, City : Dallas, State : TX, Country : United States, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class, 
    in reply to: Being addicted to smoking #34642

    Elliott
    Member

    I smoked for a few years, and though I haven’t had a cigarette for about two years, the temptation is always there, even though I know smoking is not good for me. My father had problems with depression, and he was a chain smoker. I think I know why: Cigarettes lifted his depression. They do the same for me. Smoking was a quick and easy ‘fix’ that was legal and didn’t require a prescription. I suspect that to some extent, the same is true for people who are not clinically depressed. Cigarettes give you a lift, and they appeal to a powerful part of the brain that doesn’t care whether you’re doing something that’s ultimately self-destructive.

    User Detail :  

    Name : Elliott, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : Black/African American, Religion : Raised Baptist, not agnostic, not a big believer, Age : 37, City : Dallas, State : TX, Country : United States, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class, 
Viewing 3 posts - 1 through 3 (of 3 total)