[David J. Hockenberry]

My 17 year old son Nicolas has hair down to the middle of his back, skateboards, burns incense and follows Bob Marley’s teachings. When I was in high school, long hair was in style and acid rock and roll was all the rage. My parents hated my looks, my friends and my music. The problem, I found out later in life, was that my grades were poor. That is what drove them crazy. The deal I made with my son was ‘grades will earn you freedom.’ I expect him to honor the rules, compromise when neccessary and remember to take the time to communicate. He has learned to meet me half way and he has an enviable amount of freedom. Life is a two way street and your parents are scared that your lifestyle will lead to other things. Listen to their fears and make sure that your actions don’t trigger them. Get the best grades possible and eat an occasional meal with them. The atmosphere will improve, I guarentee!!

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Name : David J. Hockenberry, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Presbyterian, Age : 46, City : Dubuque, State : IA, Country : United States, Occupation : CEO, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Upper middle class, 

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