[Daniel Wayne Johnston]

I had the chance one time when I was 13. (trust me this story is going somewhere) It was all fine and dandy making out on the couch, then she said she wanted 'me in her.' Well all sorts of things ran through my head. 'Yea dude, she's 17 ur 13, good job...but she's not really hot, so it levels out.' Also, 'Uh dude, you're gonna get her pregnant..get a condom moron.. um I don't think so' Finally the whisper I was mainly trying to ignore saying 'Yo hommie, God said wait for that, so don't screw that up either' So with that triple point slammy, the night ended there. As far as 'cherish' virginity, the problem is not with virginity losing or maintaining, it's about being able to truly cherish anything. Maybe this is really a some sort of thing that only I personally have read into, or it's true. Either way, I think that in order to be able to place value on something, you must be able to say whether it is a loss or a gain. To some people virginity isn't that cherishable because there is no foreseeable loss by losing it. To some people the only loss is how they would feel about the emotional connection that was absent at the time perhaps, or that it results in something more serious like an STD or baby. When they feel they are safe from consquences and feel as though they are getting nothing, but pleasure and enjoyment, then it can clearly be understood the perspective of those who do not cherish their virginity. When a person either believes that it is something worth holding on to, that it has a degree of worth, whether that is personal, spirtual, or otherwise engrained into the person that it should not be done until marriage or 'that special person', only then can it be cherished.

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Name : Daniel Wayne Johnston, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Pentecostal, Age : 18, City : Clarksville, State : MD Country : United States, Occupation : Computer Tech, Education level : High School Diploma, Social class : Upper middle class, 

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