[Charlie]

You say the past is not reflective of you in any way. But think about that for a minute: is that really true? Our past mistakes help shape who we are today. You’re not proud of your past, but those experiences helped define who you want to be. For example, I would guess that you are a lot more forgiving of someone who is currently experiencing what you went through, no doubt because you went through it yourself. You should be true to yourself and discuss it with your future mate. However, I also don’t think you are under any obligation to disclose anything you’re uncomfortable with up front. Just give it time. When the right time comes, telling him will just feel right. But remember, a long term relationship (I’m thinking of marriage here) is hard enough without complete honesty. Do yourself a favor and don’t erect any artificial barriers.

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Name : Charlie, City : Omaha, State : NE, Country : United States, 

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