[Bo]

I feel that when someone dates, they go by their attraction to another as per their orientation. Whether a gay man finds the most effeminate man attractive or not is not the point. The point with anyone is the ‘equipment’ or physical form they seek, which for a gay guy pretty much eliminates all females – or males in the case of lesbians. Then comes the ‘type’ of person he/she finds attractive. I don’t think any of us fall in love with the physical aspects of another within our orientation standards, but the heart, soul and mind of that person. But more to the point of your post: From an early age we are taught that ‘straight’ is how we should view the world. I would think that for many gays and lesbians, that notion has transferred to finding someone (even though the same sex) who meets those qualifications. For a guy, it is the ‘feminine,’ and for a woman, it is the ‘macho.’ Could it be that those impressions are transferred to the same sex, and some look for those qualities in a partner? But, it shouldn’t matter as long as the couple is happy.

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Why are there heterosexuals? Find out the reason for one and I think we will find the answer for all. Kinsey came out with a study that gave a scale from Heterosexual at 0 to Homosexual at 6. Most of us are bisexual, with some of us not being able to function with a male if we are totally straight (a 0) or with a female if we are totally gay (a 6). Everyone else falls somewhere in the other groups, with 4 being equally attracted to both. You may be asking what is the difference between a bisexual in a relationship with a guy and a homosexual. The simple answer is nothing. There is another scale that deals with emotional issues and really is better but too complicated to get into here. Too often we only think of the sex act as determining our orientations. Again, you forgot to ask why are some heterosexuals cross-dressers. A cross-dresser is a person who enjoys wearing the clothes of the opposite sex. Common use, though, is for a man who enjoys dressing in women’s clothes since the reverse is accepted. The reason can be for sexual or emotional reasons. It has been estimated that 1of every 48 U.S. males is a cross-dresser. These individuals can be any sexual orientation, although most (about 90 percent) of all cross-dressers are heterosexual. The main difference between cross-dressers and transsexuals is that cross-dressers are satisfied (happy) being male.

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