[Alicia31386]

I had a similar situation - only my Guy #1 was the anonymous summer fling and my Guy #2 was someone I wanted to date. Since Guy #1 and I agreed we'd never say anything about our summer tryst, I didn't tell Guy #2. Turns out Guy #2 and Guy #1 were friends and Guy #1 told Guy #2 all about me (in vivid detail) before I even met Guy #2. In the end, Guy #2 was uncomfortable getting too serious with me because 1) I'd been his friend's plaything - and he knew more about it than a woman would ever want someone else to know; and 2) I wasn't forthcoming about it when it became clear the three of us were connected. What did I learn from all this? First, my summer fling with Guy #1 wasn't worth it. I lost out on an opportunity to date a great guy for a meaningless sexual liaison with a blabbermouth. Next, honesty really is the best policy - had I been more open, maybe Guy #2 could have gotten over the mental picture he had of me coupled with his friend.

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Name : Alicia31386, Gender : F, Race : Black/African American, Age : 32, City : Seattle, State : WA Country : United States, Occupation : Attorney, Education level : Over 4 Years of College, Social class : Upper middle class, 

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