Slept with boyfriend’s best friend

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    Cat32420
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    By all means tell him. Truth is a must in relationships, and anyway he'll find out if they are good friends. I would try to bring it up casually, though.

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    Spencer
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    Yes you should tell him and let him know it was nothing. If he finds out from someone else, he will feel he can't trust you. Because it is getting serious, you need to show him you can communicate with him. If he decides not to be with you after that, then you have nothing to feel bad about because you were honest with him and maybe he was not the guy for you. Either that or he is not mature enough to accept the truth, but you really need to tell him.

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    Name : Spencer, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : Nubian, Religion : Nuwaubic, Age : 30, City : new york, State : NY Country : United States, Social class : Middle class, 
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    Jenny30907
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    You are what professionals categorize as a slut. Face it and be honest about it. That's how I deal with my slutty flings.

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    Name : Jenny30907, Gender : F, City : Frisco, State : CO Country : United States, 
    #40338
    Please take this as constructive criticism, but this is the result of casual relationships and sex. I can't understand how people who consider themselves 'in a relationship' start and stop them so easily and become sexual with the next best thing. Because you are now in this situation, be honest. You did say that you both agreed to 'see' other people (did that include sleep with?). Avoid all the tension and say what happened and move on. If boyfriend No. 1 is upset and not willing to work it out, you've learned a lesson, and move on. You said boyfriend No. 2 is not your type, so don't consider going there again. Take some time and find a guy who has the qualities of boyfriend No. 1 and the sexual potential of boyfriend No. 2. This can be done without having sex. Bottom line: think before you have sex!

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    Name : L.B. Zellner, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : Black/African American, Religion : Baptist, Age : 33, City : Wrightsville, State : GA Country : United States, Occupation : Self-employed chemist, Education level : Over 4 Years of College, Social class : Upper middle class, 
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    Harvey21426
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    Tell them about it. Honesty will never fail you. It may be painful at first, but you will overcome it. You are young and thoughtful; your self-respect will remain intact through honesty. Always be true to youself.

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    Michael
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    Tell him and then have a threesome.

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    Name : Michael, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Age : 28, City : Jax, State : FL Country : United States, Occupation : Tech, Education level : High School Diploma, Social class : Lower middle class, 
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