Dare To Ask Talk And News About Our Differences By PHILLIP MILANO
Question
Do women really play golf slower than men?
R.M., male, Jacksonville
Replies
I think women tend to see a round of golf as a social occasion. . . . But that doesn’t mean they’re slower when it comes to actually getting to their ball and hitting the shots.
J.L., male, Ponte Vedra Beach
Here on the private courses, women do not play golf slower than men. On public courses, they are more likely to play slower than men because of their lower skill levels and the fact that many hit a shorter ball.
N.M., 85, male, Florida
Although women don’t hit the ball as far, they also don’t hit as far off the fairway.
Barb, Phoenix
They’re slower because they have a lot of conversation while they’re playing.
Luke, male, Los Angeles
Women don’t play any slower than the men here. I think there are just a lot of grumpy old men who just have it in their heads that it is a man’s game and that women don’t belong on the golf course.
Gordon, 72, Sun City West, Ariz.
My wife doesn’t watch where her ball is hit, can’t remember what shot she’s hitting and can’t understand how to square herself to the target. The three guys I used to golf with died. My wife says she will spend less time in purgatory for time spent on the golf course. But I still love her!
Pat, male, Racine, Wis.
Experts say
Do women mistake tee time for tea time? (WHOA, hey! Who just hit into us? Get a ranger!)
The “hit and giggle” golf myth about women really is just that, says handicapping swami Dean Knuth, who wrote the U.S. Golf Association’s “Pace Rating System” manual.
“The average women’s handicap is about 14 shots higher than men in the U.S. . . . but women are more conscious of golf rules,” he said. Since about 75 percent of U.S. golfers are men, “odds-wise there are more slower men’s groups.”
Cathy Harbin, general manager of The Slammer & Squire at the World Golf Village in St. Johns County, agrees women really do pay attention to the rules and pace of play.
“The universal fear is that women golfers, because they don’t hit as far, will play slower. But in my experience that’s proven not to be true.”
Some men, however . . .
“They watch golf on TV. They watch guys study a shot, back off it, study again . . . they get in that mind-set.”
She gave an example of a recent members tourney:
“I put the women out front. . . . the guys were like ‘I can’t believe it.’ But they [stayed] at least a hole and a half ahead the entire day.
“There’s a stigma, and [women] don’t want to live up to it. So they say ‘We’ll be the opposite. We’ll leave them in our dust.’ ”
The biggest cause of slow play?
“Overloading the course,” said Knuth. “That’s a management issue.”