DARE TO ASK: You have a problem with that?

By PHILLIP MILANO

Question

I know a large amount of Italian-American families with houses filled with rococo furniture, clear vinyl-covered chairs, loud wallpaper, yards covered in statuary, initials on the garage door, ornate wrought-iron fences and bricked-over front lawns. Why is this?

Dave, white male, Denver

Replies

Most Italian immigrants came from poor backgrounds. Many had a flamboyant nature. I’m second-generation, a college-grad executive type, and live in a beautiful house on a two-acre wooded setting. I owe it all to a hard-working father with a fifth-grade education and devoted mother who insisted I go to college. We descendants of those immigrants also joke about those gaudy things you mentioned. Now we watch others, newly arrived in this country, do similar things. It’s part of this beautiful thing we call America. By the way, you forgot to mention gold chains with horns and diamond pinky rings.

Dave E., 47, Pittsburgh

The first thing that struck me on moving to this part of the country was the abundance of lawn ornaments. A few years ago it seemed like every other house had a Dutch Girl/Dutch Boy pair on the lawn!

Sheila, 45, white, Syracuse, N.Y.

Maybe the gaudiness comes from the American part of Italian-American. The Italian side can boast of Raphael, da Vinci, Michelangelo, Bernini. . . . I’m Italian-American, and my taste runs to Post-Impressionism and Art Deco. Go figure.

Laura O., 38, Bel Air, Md.

Expert says

These homes, many in urban areas of the Northeast, would not be complete without a statue of the Virgin Mary enshrined in a half-buried bathtub in the front yard, Italian-American writer Regina Barreca said.

“And they don’t think it’s tacky,” said Barreca, author of Don’t Tell Mama: The Penguin Book of Italian American Writing. “They would say: ‘I’m going to enjoy my yard, my garage. This is my palace. If I want to put a painting of The Last Supper above each inside garage door, I will. You have a problem with that?'”

Barreca, a University of Connecticut English professor, said such decor is a workingclass thing, carried over by immigrants from southern Italy who wanted to show off their new homes when they arrived here a century ago.

“They couldn’t believe you actually owned where you lived. Remember, these were peasants. They’re so pleased to exercise their own taste, they go to town.” It’s not only Italian-Americans, she said. Working-class folks of other ethnicities sometimes go all-out in their adornments.

“If you grew up poor, you want to have the most fun. So whether it’s Italians painting flames on a ’67 Camaro or, for example, an African-American upholstering with a different fabric, it’s still ‘This is mine, it’s not a beige Volvo.’ ”

This sense of enjoying life extends beyond the homestead, she added. “I just went to a 50th anniversary party for my cousin, and an Elvis impersonator performed up through the main entree. This was not done with irony.”