Dare To Ask Talk And News About Our Differences By PHILLIP MILANO
Question
Hispanics refer to me as “wedda.” What does it mean?
N.F., 44, white female, Denver
Replies
The word is huera and it’s pronounced more like “where-a” or “where-o” (huero, to refer to a guy). It basically means “white girl” or “white guy” in a positive kind of way.
FreedaBee, 42, white female, California
Actually, no. It’s about as positive as if you had a Latino “friend” who you addressed as “spic” – but in a “playful” manner.
Jill, Chicago
In Spain I learned huero means “empty” or “hollow” and is commonly used to refer to an unfertilized egg. Somehow huero came to describe a person who is “white with nothing inside.”
Teresa, white, Gurnee, Ill.
Don’t take offense. Mexicans often refer to individuals by their characteristics. For example, blacks = “Negros,” Asians = “Chinos,” thin = “Flaco” and in my case, fat = “Gordo.”
Oscar, Mexican, Hawaii
Would this extend to physical abnormalities? For example, would someone in a wheelchair be called the Mexican equivalent of “cripple”?
Marcia, 43, white, Venice
Expert says
Wedda you (or your mudda or fadda) like it or not, if you’re in rural Mexico or around lower-income or urban Mexican youths in the United States, you may get a nickname based on your physical features.
“There are communities in Mexico where no one knows the real name of the person,” said Alexandro Gradilla, assistant professor of Chicano and Chicana studies at Cal State Fullerton. “For example, this one is ‘the doll,’ who is the brother of ‘the skinny one,’ who is getting married to ‘the angry one.’ Then you get a wedding invitation, and you’re like ‘Who is Jose Garcia and Susanna Gonzalez?’ ”
To refer to a fair-skinned person, it’s guero or guera, – or huero or huera. And yes, it would be deemed a term of endearment, Gradilla said.
“It’s a way of being familiar. It sounds weird to American sensibilities, like why are you referring to my whiteness?”
Guera goes back to Mexico’s colonial period, when Spaniards had a caste system in place that hinged on who was more “European” and who wasn’t, which often meant who had lighter skin, he said.
“It’s strange, in the United States we know about race, but we don’t like talking about it . . . but in other countries you acknowledge the difference in the open.”
Not all nicknames are “fun” – on some Latin-American Jerry Springer-type shows, the terms can seem pretty cold, Gradilla said.
“They’ll be like, there’s ‘flat nose’ – chato. But, it’s like a bonding thing. If you don’t have a nickname, you’re kind of an outsider, so they are trying to make you feel part of the group when they do this. They are accepting something that we are supposed to ignore. It’s calling out the elephant in the room.”