Dare To Ask Talk And News About Our Differences By PHILLIP MILANO Question Why do a lot of upper-class suburban females have a stuck-up attitude when lower- or middle-class dudes (mostly Latinos or blacks) try to talk to them? Nick, Latino, Dallas Replies Please. You live in America, where money is king. E.D., 48, black female, Missouri There’s a perception that girls who get hit on by blacks and …
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By PHILLIP MILANO Question I was drinking a glass of moo juice a few minutes ago and it struck me: Does a cow produce milk 365 days a year? Sounds like a dumb question, but look at some of the questions readers are asking about sex and stuff like that around here. Ron S., 60, Stockton, Calif. Replies I have …
Read More »DARE TO ASK: Personal space, race: Touchy topic
By PHILLIP MILANO Question Most people accept being bumped into as part of living in a busy metropolis. But every time I bump into a black person, they get extremely upset and start yelling. What’s up with this? Mark, 49, white, New York Replies Blacks have a greater sense of personal space and take it as an aggressive act to …
Read More »DARE TO ASK: Do jaws drop over piercing of a tongue?
By PHILLIP MILANO Question I have a tongue piercing. In all other respects I look conventional. What would your reaction be if you saw me? Anne, 19, London Replies The only thing that runs through my head is “ow!” I grew up in the San Francisco Bay Area, and it got to the point that if you didn’t have multiple …
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By PHILLIP MILANO Question If you’re a male client, where does your female hairstylist expect you to look when she’s leaning in front of you, exposing ample cleavage? Lee, 37, male, Fairfax, Va. Replies Good boys always look forward and behave when they get their hair cut. If there happens to be a pair of enormous breasts there, it’s not …
Read More »DARE TO ASK: Ignorance often leads to hostility
By PHILLIP MILANO Question Why is there such hostility toward Jewish people? Reez, 32, Asian male, Toronto Replies Throughout history, Jews were outsiders. Political power derived its legitimacy from Christianity, so Jews were politically suspect. Economically, they were useful but despised: not being allowed to own land in many places, they were forced into mercantile trades; having connections with other …
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