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They may be ‘young and plumptious,’ but I don’t always want to hook up

Thanks for the question. It really made me think, and I may not be proud of all that I am going to say. First, we are all people. Anyone can “try to talk” to anyone. Did you mean talk, or what in England I would call “Chat up” or try to “Pick up”? Second, some young girls do want to ...

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Should I let the young’ns see daddy behind bars?

My children are 9-and 7-year-old little boys and their real father is going to jail soon for a third DUI. They know that he is sick (alcoholism). My oldest has extreme anxiety that is a result from the lies that he has told him. We are in counseling now and I’m not sure that seeing him in jail would help ...

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Age-related Questions 31-40

THE QUESTION: A40: What do teenagers in Sweden do? POSTED FEB. 22, 1999 T.J. Weickum <Hollywood_tj@hotmail.com>, Wewela, SD To respond BACK TO TOP THE QUESTION: A39: What kinds of things do Italian teenagers do that would compare and contrast with American teenagers? POSTED FEB. 22, 1999 Cody B. <c_bertram@yahoo.com>, Colome, SD To respond BACK TO TOP THE QUESTION: A38: To ...

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Age-related Questions 41-50

THE QUESTION: A43: Why is it that in high school, it’s cool to be dumb, to seem dumb or to do badly in school? I’m more than an average student, and have been criticized for being so. Mind you, I don’t show off. So why is this? POSTED MARCH 19, 1999 K.L., 15, Hamilton, Ontario, Canada ANSWER 1: I think ...

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Dare to Ask: More tests don’t mean more money for doctors 

By Phillip J. Milano Question I’ve noticed many doctors exaggerate what to do with my “problems,” such as suggesting unnecessary operations, until I find ones who tell the truth. Don’t they swear to help, be honest and good? Why try to just get more money from us by lying? Shame on you! Nickynic, female, Venezuela Replies Especially here in America, ...

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Dare to Ask: A Middle Easterner is not always an Arab

By Phillip J. Milano Question Do Middle Easterners find it offensive to be called Arabs or A-rabs? Karen, white, Staten, N.C. Replies A-rab is considered offensive because it is mispronounced. And remember, not all people in the Middle East are Arab. There are Persians (mainly in Iran), Palestinians, Kurd … it goes on and on. Calling someone from Iran A-rab ...

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