By PHILLIP MILANO Question Girls, if you found out a guy you knew fantasized about you, would you be offended, disgusted, intrigued, flattered, don’t want to know, etc.? Jayarby, 55, male, Philadelphia Replies I think it would be flattering. Maybe I’m fantasizing about him, too. Jesse, 25, New Orleans Sex is a private matter. Just as I don’t go around …

By PHILLIP MILANO Question Why do some white people get tans? Dorothy, black, Jacksonville Replies It seems to slim and even out skin tone. Have you ever noticed how much nicer a black woman’s legs are in comparison to many white women’s? Joy, 25, white, Minneapolis I think you look better tan than to be a sickly white color. Aimee, …

By PHILLIP MILANO Question Why do some parents have their infant’s ears pierced? Why risk the child pulling her ears or getting an infection? T., 20, female, Macomb, Ill. Replies I think it is just plain selfish to get an infant’s ears pierced. That baby does not come out of the womb saying, “Mummy, I do think that a dazzling …

By PHILLIP MILANO Question Why do some queens hate lesbians? You would think we would support each other. Imari, 47, lesbian, Austin, Texas Replies Because most queens care about one thing: themselves. They don’t like straight people, they don’t like bisexuals and they certainly don’t like lesbians. . . . They are a main reason the gay community has a …

By PHILLIP MILANO Question I’m an American in a foreign country that has a lot of British ex-pats. I notice when they do dishes, they usually don’t rinse them. Why? It seems strange – wanting to eat off dishes with soap scum all over them. Susan, 35, Istanbul, Turkey Replies I don’t know, either, and I’m a Brit! I was …

By PHILLIP MILANO Question Do most older people feel it’s wrong for society to ask them not to drive? S.W., 20, female, Johnson City, Tenn. Replies  My grandmother is a decent driver, but her boyfriend is terrible. He speeds, flips the bird and goes on a tirade if he’s cut off. . . . He is a danger to everybody …