By PHILLIP MILANO Question Girls, if you found out a guy you knew fantasized about you, would you be offended, disgusted, intrigued, flattered, don’t want to know, etc.? Jayarby, 55, male, Philadelphia Replies I think it would be flattering. Maybe I’m fantasizing about him, too. Jesse, 25, New Orleans Sex is a private matter. Just as I don’t go around …
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Dare to Ask: Shedding light on suntan fans
By PHILLIP MILANO Question Why do some white people get tans? Dorothy, black, Jacksonville Replies It seems to slim and even out skin tone. Have you ever noticed how much nicer a black woman’s legs are in comparison to many white women’s? Joy, 25, white, Minneapolis I think you look better tan than to be a sickly white color. Aimee, …
Read More »Dare to Ask: Baby, why are your ears pierced?
By PHILLIP MILANO Question Why do some parents have their infant’s ears pierced? Why risk the child pulling her ears or getting an infection? T., 20, female, Macomb, Ill. Replies I think it is just plain selfish to get an infant’s ears pierced. That baby does not come out of the womb saying, “Mummy, I do think that a dazzling …
Read More »Dare to Ask: Gay men and lesbians: No love lost?
By PHILLIP MILANO Question Why do some queens hate lesbians? You would think we would support each other. Imari, 47, lesbian, Austin, Texas Replies Because most queens care about one thing: themselves. They don’t like straight people, they don’t like bisexuals and they certainly don’t like lesbians. . . . They are a main reason the gay community has a …
Read More »Dare to Ask: Wash the dishes, then rinse, right?
By PHILLIP MILANO Question I’m an American in a foreign country that has a lot of British ex-pats. I notice when they do dishes, they usually don’t rinse them. Why? It seems strange – wanting to eat off dishes with soap scum all over them. Susan, 35, Istanbul, Turkey Replies I don’t know, either, and I’m a Brit! I was …
Read More »Dare to Ask: Debating (older) age and driving
By PHILLIP MILANO Question Do most older people feel it’s wrong for society to ask them not to drive? S.W., 20, female, Johnson City, Tenn. Replies My grandmother is a decent driver, but her boyfriend is terrible. He speeds, flips the bird and goes on a tirade if he’s cut off. . . . He is a danger to everybody …
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