By PHILLIP MILANO Question I am a social worker and want to know what people think of people in the profession. I am a conservative white female. However, because I am a social worker, people tend to think I must be a “bleeding-heart liberal” because I work with people who are less fortunate or have mental health problems. Also, is …
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Dare to Ask: Black ladies love long fake nails?
By PHILLIP MILANO Question Why do black ladies always get fake nails that are so long that they can’t even pick change up off the counter or type on a register? They seem ridiculous, and look awful. Julie, 27, Akron, Ohio Replies I’ve seen white women with the same fake, long nails. Do you find them ridiculous, too? Christelle, Buffalo, …
Read More »Dare to Ask: Marriage, relatively speaking
By PHILLIP MILANO Question How far down the cousin chain does it go before it is legal to marry a relative? David, Fernandina Beach Replies In New Zealand it is legal for first cousins to marry – but not for second cousins. Don’t ask me about the logic for that, but I always presumed it was due to genetic differentiation. …
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By PHILLIP MILANO Question I wonder why every time I read about a Jewish person, the sentence always has to contain “nice.” For instance, on (former History Channel host) Josh Bernstein: He’s a “nice Jewish boy from New York.” Or (Comedy Central’s) Sarah Silverman: a “nice Jewish girl from Connecticut.” You never read “Josh Holloway (Sawyer on ABC’s Lost) is …
Read More »Dare to Ask: Let’s dial into issue of cell phones
By PHILLIP MILANO Question I have a co-worker who cannot get off his cell phone. He’s been counseled twice by management but still constantly talks on it while working. What is his problem? Alma, 51, Kempner, Texas Replies He’s a moron who won’t take “no” for an answer. Lisa, 39, Fort Worth, Texas Maybe it is obsessive-compulsive disorder. But . …
Read More »Dare to Ask: So, are we really born this way?
By PHILLIP MILANO Question Could sexual orientation be genetically pushed by excessive male or female hormones during pregnancy? Rod, 50, straight, Jacksonville Replies It could be hormonal, but we’ve had homosexual people around since history began to be written down and kept track of. There are also gay animal groups that don’t eat anything in order to alter their hormones. …
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