By Phillip Milano Question I’m curious what women think about their relationship with their fathers while growing up, specifically how much time you needed to see them. Would weekends and a kiss at night have been enough for you? Nick, 37, Australia Replies No! A girl learns what she wants out of a man from her dad. My dad was …

By Phillip Milano Question What do people think about Alaska? Do you see us as a bunch of Eskimos riding polar bears and living in igloos? Daniel, 22, Fairbanks Replies I went to Alaska last summer and I loved it. Seriously, the most beautiful place I have ever gone. Before I visited I just envisioned a lot of snow and …

By Phillip Milano Question Do people really start looking the same after many years of marriage? Andy, 57, Jacksonville Replies I feel it’s being in the same environment: For years, the two of you eat the same basic food, are exposed to the same chemicals, have the same stresses, etc. So, one’s surroundings and life story run much the same …

By Phillip Milano Question What encourages people to be porn actors or actresses? Azucena, 30, female, London Replies For guys, it’s pretty much what you may have already guessed. Taz, 32, male, Detroit Easy money. And lots of it. Kelly, 19, Richmond, Va. Although I can’t say from experience, most women in that business have been sexually abused at a …

By Phillip Milano Question Why do black Americans wait at least a week after death before burying the deceased? D., 52, white male, Jacksonville Replies A lot of my family is spread across the East Coast. It takes time for those able to attend to get the time off work and travel. Rosemary, black, Nashville My mother works at a …

By Phillip Milano Question For a class assignment I’m asking students to shop for items hard to find in mainstream culture (for example an Asian Barbie, a book with a lesbian main character, etc.). Any suggestions? Sarah, 32, white, Mankato, Minn. Replies Well, lesbians as main characters in novels aren’t very hard to find nowadays. Just off the top of …