[stephen27815]

Most men won’t have slept with as many people as you. Particularly those in your age group. Few will be understanding regardless of their age or the number of women with whom they have slept. No one should judge, in my opinion, but they will. no one else can teach this to you but you will have to determine, through trial and error, the type of man that can accept people for they are and not prejudge on some notion of what it is to be a ‘proper’ woman. As long as you are 100% sure you are disease free, you don’t have to tell anyone at first. while that will continue to apply, even beyond marriage, your posting this here indicates that you feel guilty about it. keeping a guilty secret isn’t an easy way to live. I would suggest that you forgive yourself and accept your own choices. until then you will be bound to this mentally. whether a man accepts this about you or not, without forgiving yourself first, you may find yourself unable to give up a man that isn’t right for you in other ways bound by thinking he is the only one able to give you the forgiveness you clearly need. most men would sleep with 10,000 women, four at a time, if they could. most of what would be unacceptable to them would be fear that they would be inadequate in some way. Don’t let fear of any kind rule your life.

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Name : stephen27815, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Age : 33, City : Toronto, State : NA, Country : Canada, Education level : 2 Years of College, Social class : Middle class, 

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