[stacey]

I think most men who date women who constantly check up on them have a basic insecurity issue. Most of the women I have dated always wanted to know when I was coming home and they did check up on me. I think women do that to prove to herself that her man is not out somewhere with another woman.

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Name : stacey, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : Black/African American, Religion : Christian, Age : 39, City : kansas city, State : MO, Country : United States, Occupation : retail, Education level : 2 Years of College, Social class : Lower middle class, 

[stacey]

As a black man who dated both white and black women, I find white women more attractive to me. I have also dated asian women as well. I think most black men who love white women are conditioned by society that a pretty white woman is the ultimate ideal of beauty especially if she has blond hair, blue eyes, nice body, and a nice face. The white women I dated viewed me as more of a man with qualities that attracted them and not my race. I find many white women I have dated more easy to deal with, more tolerant, very caring, and deeply into sensual satisfaction. However many white women who are not attracted to black men tell me that it the pressure from their family or friends not to date someone who is black. Other then that most white women who have prejudice in their family or friends need to not be concerned with what they think and go with what their heart feels for the black man. A good decent white woman will support her man through thick and thin. Yes, there are some brothers who date white women for all the wrong reasons, status, sex, money, fame, social class and personal power. I don’t date white women for all the wrong reasons, I date them to show them love like a true brother can love them. Black women have been always difficult to handle in a relationship, too much drama for me. I think there are many more black men out there who love white women than will admit it. Some black men are with black women who are unhappy go out and cheat on their wives or girlfriends with a white woman to explore the sexual ways of another culture or some other need is not being met at home. I know if few happy black male/female couples and many black men tell me that they wish they with a white woman instead.

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Name : stacey, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : Black/African American, Religion : Christian, Age : 39, City : kansas city, State : MO, Country : United States, Occupation : retail, Education level : 2 Years of College, Social class : Lower middle class, 

[stacey]

I think many white women who love black men see them as more of a man than other men. I think it has to do a lot of what you see on tv, movies, books, and other sources of media. I know some white women who are married to white men and they still fantasize about black men. Some white women who are married or have white boyfriends think it makes them more of a woman to be with a black man. I think it is a sexual fantasy in most white women who are married to or have white boyfriends to have a black man in bed. I think most of them just keep it as a fantasy because they are afraid that the white men they are with will be mad at them. Some of the other reasons why white women love black men is because they where always taught that is it forbidden or taboo to date or marry black men. When they find out all the stereotypes taught to them are wrong they look at many black men as being oppressed. Even black women tell me that have white girlfriends who date or marry black men that the black man is seen as more sexual appealing as a superstud in bed. I have nothing against black women I just find that I like white women more. There are also black women who date white men but mainly it is a status symbol as part of a sister moving up in society and in the corporate world. I think there is good and bad in every race of people and you cannot say that one race is better than the other. I think it is all in what people like or what they are attracted to. Usually society pictures the beautiful white woman with long, blonde hair as the most appealing so many men of all races play into what society thinks. The prize is always going to be an attractive white woman, but I think once people look past the race issue that will change. I think most white women who date black men tell me that they are the most adaptable man of every race.

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Name : stacey, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : Black/African American, Religion : Christian, Age : 39, City : kansas city, State : MO, Country : United States, Occupation : retail, Education level : 2 Years of College, Social class : Lower middle class, 

[stacey]

I think it is good to see a black man with a white woman or a white man with a black woman. Racism and slavery are not suppossed to exist anymore. I think many black men who even have black women often tell me that they still have fantasize about beautiful white women. So oftentimes I haven’t seen too many black men who are with black women very happy in their relationships for one reason or another. I am a black man and I don’t care if I see a white man with a black woman it does not bother me at all. I think many white women see black men as superstuds in bed or it is just like having chocolate candy to them. I often hear white men who have wives tell me that their wife wants to experience sex with a black man. While I would not mess with a married white woman some black men don’t care. I think the race or color of skin is important but I have dated black, white, and women of other races as well.

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Name : stacey, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : Black/African American, Religion : Christian, Age : 39, City : kansas city, State : MO, Country : United States, Occupation : retail, Education level : 2 Years of College, Social class : Lower middle class, 

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