[Trisha]

This is a sensitive issue and has to be handled correctly, which means honestly. If you and guy #1 agreed to see other people while he was away, then you really haven't done anything wrong. Leaving this unsaid will become a big problem in the future because somehow it WILL come out and then guy #1 will not be able to forgive you because you've kept it from him for so long. He may already feel that way if you tell him now, but better late than never. Talk to guy #2 and tell him you want to tell guy #1 about what happened, and both of you tell him. Be prepared for him to react negatively, though, because now all he's going to picture is his best friend and his girl in bed together, and that's going to be hard for him to deal with. But if he's as serious as you are about your relationship, he will get over it eventually.

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Name : Trisha, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : Black/African American, Age : 26, City : Toronto, Ontario, State : NA Country : Canada, Occupation : entrepreneur, Education level : 2 Years of College, Social class : Middle class, 

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