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  • in reply to: Jewish pride – or superiority complex? #21046

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    As I was born and raised jewish both ethnicly and religiously (although not religiously practicing) I did venture into a lot of local circles which were known as the jewish communities. You have to understand, Jews really thrive when they are together with their own as you could imagine of any ethnicity. You may take the pride or superiority “complex” out of context. They may not be saying WE are better than YOU, but moreso YOU are not one of US. As again I’m not an orthodox or religiously practicing jew… in fact, my friends kid me by saying I’m as jewish as I am any other religion, I know how it can be to be around many jews but still not feel as if I’m one of them. No they may never have come off as rude, or superior, but I could clearly tell they knew I was not one of them. So don’t think of it so much as they are personally attacking you, or that they don’t like you, or you aren’t “worthy” … its just that they probably feel as you are not one of them, you wouldn’t understand.

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    in reply to: Women and driving. #21032

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    Most women I know are fantastic drivers. Excellent driving records, excellent driver etiquette. Still I refuse to let them drive while I am in the car. Safety is not the issue, but primarily speed and time. Yes my wife is an excellent driver, but she always drives at or under the speed limit, gets nervous when she doesn’t know where she’s going, slows to a crawl when looking for streets she’s unfamiliar with and so on. If you happen to be behind her, or any women unaccustomed to driving hastily and wrecklessly, its pretty much a default response to believe the person in front of you (that is going 10 MPH in a 30 with their blinker on as they nervously grip the steering wheel in perfect 10 and 2 form) does not know how to drive and there for, is considered a bad driver.

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    in reply to: Caught my beau cheating… #21033

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    Its true, I am one so I can vouch for us. What your boyfriend is doing is trying to misdirect you in any avenue other then the one leading to himself. Whats better then blaming yourself for a mistake? Blaming someone else obviously! He’s most likely ashamed, angry with himself, and even angrier that you caught him. Using your supervisor was just an easy out as you probably speak with him on a daily basis and/or may even have a friendly relationship with him outside of work. Is this a common response? You betcha it is. A lot of men won’t take responsibility for their mistakes. We misdirect, pass the buck, blame the innocent and will most assuredly lie if we feel it can alleviate the pressure and shame of our wrongdoing.

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    in reply to: Caught my beau cheating… #21034

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    Its true, I am one so I can vouch for us. What your boyfriend is doing is trying to misdirect you in any avenue other then the one leading to himself. Whats better then blaming yourself for a mistake? Blaming someone else obviously! He’s most likely ashamed, angry with himself, and even angrier that you caught him. Using your supervisor was just an easy out as you probably speak with him on a daily basis and/or may even have a friendly relationship with him outside of work. Is this a common response? You betcha it is. A lot of men won’t take responsibility for their mistakes. We misdirect, pass the buck, blame the innocent and will most assuredly lie if we feel it can alleviate the pressure and shame of our wrongdoing.

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    Name : Steven, Gender : Male, Race : White/Caucasian, Age : 25, City : Houston, State : TX, Country : United States, Education level : Technical School, Social class : Middle class, 
    in reply to: How can I feel like a man to my wife? #21035

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    You said once you feel like a man you’ll treat her like one. Does that mean you’d likely punch her in the eye and make her do dishes? Preferably not. Some things that may help in your need to feel “manly” may start as simply as starting a physical fitness regimen. Boosting your activity will boost your testosterone, give you confidence, relieve anxiety and help you on your way to greater stamina and ability during intercourse as well. Don’t be afraid to take charge… don’t think that this is all about her. When you are enjoying yourself, she will be more likely to enjoy herself as well. Go crazy with it, try something you have’t tried before. Don’t psych yourself out over if she’s being satisfied or not.. the fate of the world does not lie on her orgasm. Relax. Being comfortable in your ability to be yourself — thats what a true man is.

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    in reply to: Certainty of faith #18853

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    Whether it be an organized religion or not.. theres one thing in each religion that stands out, and thats pretty much respect for eachother.. and the animals living on this earth. Whether a man or a god came up with that revelation it bothers me not. My parents are jewish but they aren’t religious… I am not religious.. but I believe in god nonetheless. I refuse to believe that this world came out of nowhere. Maybe thats my faith however to Collete who may claim we are terribly alone.. might I speak the words of Socrates when he said ‘either death is a state of nothingness and utter unconsiousness, or, as men say there is a change of migrations from this world to another’ in his apology… when I read this I thought deep into religion, as religion gives men a comfort for when death occurs. Either way men need not fear death, but moreso embrace life and those living as god.. any god intended

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    in reply to: Reply To: Breast size a “big” deal to men? #26091

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    I believe the honest truth is.. nomatter if you have large or small breasts.. guys go for either… its eye candy… its another attraction.. but most importantly.. a girl with a pretty face cures all in my belief. Large breasts are another attraction just like slender legs.. or a slim waist… … man… I need to get a girlfriend…

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