[Sharon28105]

I was attracted to my boyfriend because of the richness of his personality. That richness made him very erotic to me, too. I am very open-minded about sex and have never felt shocked or disgusted by any of my past or present partners’ desires, no matter how unusual. However, my partner using porn makes me see him differently, as if he’s not quite as rich as I thought he was, or as if there is a superficial part of his personality I hadn’t anticipated and can’t really respect. When I see him opt for such a fake reality, where women have no personality, depth or self and are diminished to the simple role of mobile sexual apparatus (the living version of a blow-up doll) – I question whether I got him right and also question how he views me, what he wants from me as a woman and what he values about women.

I would really appreciate men’s views on this because I don’t understand how such an intelligent, sensitive, complex and awake kind of man can pay himself, and me, so little real respect.

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Name : Sharon28105, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Agnostic, Age : 29, City : Edinburgh, State : NA, Country : United Kingdom, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class, 

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