[Sean Hodges]

You assume all men are afraid of gay males. Not so! I was asked out by a colleague at university. I turned him down as nicely as possible, and we ended up quite good friends, partly because I was one of the few people who knew he was gay at that time, so it was easy for him to talk openly to me. My girlfriend and I had several gay friends at university (all male). I never understood why anyone would be intimidated by them. They were all nice enough chaps, and saying ‘no’ to them if they asked you out would be easy enough. I guess some men have the fear that they might be raped by a gay male. My attitude (as a straight male) was always – the more gay men there are, the fewer straights I will have to compete with for the straight women!

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Name : Sean Hodges, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Atheist, Age : 36, City : London, State : NA, Country : United Kingdom, Occupation : Geologist, Education level : Over 4 Years of College, Social class : Lower middle class, 

[Sean Hodges]

Massively developed muscular female bodies don’t turn me on. They don’t revolt me – I am as fascinated by such extremes of body shape as I am by overmuscled men, and by the extremely obese. Women with unfeasibly large breasts are in the same category. However, I don’t find any of them sexually appealing. I think recent studies have shown that the average person’s perception of beauty is how close someone’s face falls to the average of all the faces they have seen – people create an ‘archetype’ to which they compare new faces. I would guess that we do the same with bodies – so the most attractive body is the average of all those tall, thin, fat, skinny, lumpy, smooth bodies you have seen in your life. It would explain why people tend to stick to their own race in relationships – their ‘ideal’ face and body is the average of all the people they have encountered. Spend more time with people from another race and perhaps you ‘learn’ to appreciate their shapes and faces more.

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Name : Sean Hodges, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Atheist, Age : 36, City : London, State : NA, Country : United Kingdom, Occupation : Geologist, Education level : Over 4 Years of College, Social class : Lower middle class, 

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