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Research shows that gay teens are four to six times as likely to commit suicide than their straight peers. Schools, parents, churches and other social institutions have historically not given this sad fact the attention it deserves, resulting in unforgiveable suffering and loss of life. Today things are slowly changing. Many public schools, particularly in large areas, now have supportive programs for GLBT students and educational units on sexuality and sexual orientation for all students. Although homophobic parents might not like it, this is the direction of progress. Both straight and gay teens benefit from having gay role models, but for gay teens, your presence may be a lifesaver.
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Name : Sarah M., Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Lutheran, Age : 27, City : Fort Collins, State : CO, Country : United States, Occupation : School Counseling Grad Student, Education level : Over 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class,Sorry, Mike, but your argument reads like a badly written GRE logic question (that’s the admissions test for grad school). The more research we do on human personality, the more of a genetic component we find in just about everything people do (sense of humor, life satisfaction, irritability, experience of love, sexual orientation, etc.). Check out Authentic Happiness by Martin Seligman, M.D. for the latest research on what we can and can’t change about ourselves. It’s true that certain family dynamics are often present in a GLBT child’s family (and the religious right makes a big deal out of these ‘patterns’). This still doesn’t mean that sexual orientation is a choice. Generally, family relationships lose their formative influence on a child’s unconscious behavior, probably including sexuality, at around age 6 or so (read Alfred Adler for more info.). Children carry these unconscious ‘scripts’ into adolescense and adulthood, but are usually unaware of how this early (and very strong) programming affects their behavior and personality.
Even if you reject the notion that genetics don’t play any part in sexual orientation, you still cannot say that a 6-year-old can examine messages and feelings he or she is not even aware of to make a choice about sexual orientation. Even independent of genetics, your ‘choice’ argument just doesn’t hold.
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Name : Sarah M., Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Lutheran, Age : 27, City : Fort Collins, State : CO, Country : United States, Occupation : School Counseling Grad Student, Education level : Over 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class,There are several Lutheran demonimations in America (ELCA, LCMS, Wisconsin Synod, and a few others) with different stances on gay-ness. The largest by far, the Evangelical Lutheran Church in America (ELCA), welcomes gays into fellowship. Please specify what Lutheran church you are from. Don’t lump them all together. It is important for GLBT folks to know there is a safe and welcoming place they can worship and express their faith.
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Name : Sarah M., Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Lutheran, Age : 27, City : Fort Collins, State : CO, Country : United States, Occupation : School Counseling Grad Student, Education level : Over 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class,Oooohh . . so now the Creator has a spokesperson! There are so many of us who worship the same Creator who suspect he would say something quite different. It’s nice that you think you know the mind of God, but please . . are you being realistic? The truth is that there is quite a bit of theological debate about God’s stance on homosexuality, and that there is no Biblical passage that unequivocally forbids homosexuality. If this were such a HUGE deal, wouldn’t God have made it clear, e.g. the 10 commandments? Many Christian congregations welcome GLBT folks into fellowship, and many Christians are saddened that so many GLBT folks have left the church because of hate, discrimination and persecution. Even if you think I might be wrong about the sin part, think about it. Would the God of the Bible ever punish you for showing love and Christian fellowship to ANYONE? For loving TOO MUCH? NOT!! So quit worrying about what God thinks, because you’ll never figure it out. Leave the judgment up to him and love every person as he commanded.
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Name : Sarah M., Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Lutheran, Age : 27, City : Fort Collins, State : CO, Country : United States, Occupation : School Counseling Grad Student, Education level : Over 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class,
