[Rhonda-P-Outlaw19721]

Amy, please. A good ass whipping (when deserved) never hurt a child. Sometimes ‘time out’ and all that other white folks psycho babble doesn’t work with a kid, ESPECIALLY a boy. I have a son who is nearly 13 years old. I can count on one hand the times I had to tap that ass. Let me share this with you real quick. My son was about eight years old. We had discussed prior to leaving home that there would be no visits to toy stores (we were shopping for dress shoes). Lo and behold, as soon as we get near the shopping center, he starts begging to go in the toy store. I said no. As we were crossing a BUSY intersection, he snatches his hand from mine and proceeds to stomp into oncoming traffic. I run after him, picked him up, got across the street safely, and proceeded to WEAR HIS ASS OUT!! There was a cop standing near one of the stores; he says, ‘Hey, hey…’ as I’m spanking him. I respectfully told him to MIND HIS OWN BUSINESS, because in a few years, IF he’s snapping handcuffs on my son, he’d blame ME for not doing my job and disciplining him. Anyway, I wore my son’s ass out, NOT for asking for toys, but for being beligerent, disrespectful, and damn near getting himself killed in the process. As a parent, I do NOT tolerate ANY form of disrespect; particularly from a son who is taller than I am. No rolling of eyes or other dirty looks, no sucking of teeth, no backtalk, no debating of issues with me. Now anything else is pretty much up for discussion; showing disrespect to ME, his mother, is NOT acceptable, is non negotiable, and MIGHT result in him spitting out a few loose teeth. As a result, I have a very mannerable, and respectful young man. I don’t go through the trauma and drama that many parents with kids my age go through. If a child does not respect his parents, he will not respect others.

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Name : Rhonda-P-Outlaw19721, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : Black/African American, Religion : Lutheran, Age : 44, City : Laurelton, State : NY, Country : United States, Occupation : Account Rep, Education level : 2 Years of College, Social class : Middle class, 

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