On Edge

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    It's been my personal experience that orientation has nothing to do with activities and everything to do with attractions. From my earliest memories, I've let my natural attractions be my test. I remember being 7 or 8 and going through Sears catalogs, bypassing the bra ads and going straight (so to speak) for men's underwear. I often wonder if we're all naturally bisexual (some would say 'omnisexual'). At 30, I've long been comfortable with being gay but for the past several years have noticed an attraction to a handful of women--not a sexual attraction, more of an emotional one. As mentioned by others, I feel the important thing it so not judge your emotions or attractions, just be open to whichever way the wind blows. But most of all, respect yourself and your partner. If you do decide to 'test' your orientation, might I suggest being as up front as possible. At the very least, don't lead the person on.

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    Name : On Edge, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Gay, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : spiritualist, Age : 30, City : Dallas, State : TX Country : United States, Occupation : entrepreneur, Education level : High School Diploma, Social class : Middle class, 
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