[Omelio]

I am a very “gay” person. I have been harrassed and even assaulted on occassion. And even though it gives no one the right to interfer in my life homosexuality is abnormal. “Abnormal” is not a dirty word nor should it be if it doesn’t affect your actual health. And again as a harrassed person even the people who don’t verbally or physically assault you if you are also “feminine” which most harrassed gays are you are chastised about every aspect of yourself. I’m 28, I’m not sure how old you are but I assure you every “gay” or “feminine” boy i know knows the way people treat them and knows the strange looks he gets when he plays with children at least in a “feminine” fashion. The facts of who pedophiles are is irrelavant to what people think. The majority of people do have a problem with homosexuals, if only when it comes to their own house. And let’s face it I live in a major city and even visit new york on occassion There are still huge swaths of despise and disdain that cause you to be cautious, I can hardly imagine how it would be elsewhere. As for the insecurities heterosexual men face please take a moment from your surity of which sentiment is in the majority and consider that homophobia doesn’t have to be raging hate to be in existence. The idea that homosexuals have no self control is rooted in the fact that most people DO have attraction to the same sex if to a minor degree, I for one have been attracted to a total of two girls both lesbians and both strippers and so very likely gave off manly pheromones. In any case in order to beleive you CAN overcome your urges they must have reason to believe it is possible. Sexuality in the end is grey. But because of our social struture people have to behave as if they are black or white and anyone who indulges in the grey or the black has no self control. I would love to say that homophobia barely existed but I assure you homophobia is alive and well just like it’s cousin racism

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Name : Omelio, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Gay, Race : Black/African American, Religion : Theist, Age : 24, City : Philadelphia, State : PA, Country : United States, Occupation : Draftman, Education level : 2 Years of College, Social class : Lower middle class, 

[Omelio]

if it hurts you should stop. pain is usually an indication that something is wrong. either you’re too tense, not enough lube or it’s just not a good day. it might help you to practice on yourself so you can see what you need. and so you can see what to expect when you are relaxed. but also make sure you’re with some that has patience.

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Name : Omelio, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Gay, Race : Black/African American, Religion : Theist, Age : 24, City : Philadelphia, State : PA, Country : United States, Occupation : Draftman, Education level : 2 Years of College, Social class : Lower middle class, 

[Omelio]

because most of us who were beat, did do something wrong. the truth in life is that mistakes and “bad” things generally lead to negative results. the problem of course is that people who get beat the most are people who probably have difficulty controlling themselves or understanding why thier behavior is wrong.

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Name : Omelio, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Gay, Race : Black/African American, Religion : Theist, Age : 24, City : Philadelphia, State : PA, Country : United States, Occupation : Draftman, Education level : 2 Years of College, Social class : Lower middle class, 

[Omelio]

Yes we get dandruff, and it’s white just like yours. Don’t hold me to this, but I don’t think melanin is made in the top layer of skin, and that’s the layer were dandruff forms. However, if you’ve ever seen a black person’s dry skin elsewhere, you’ll notice that this ‘ashiness’ is white.

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Name : Omelio, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Gay, Race : Black/African American, Religion : Theist, Age : 24, City : Philadelphia, State : PA, Country : United States, Occupation : Draftman, Education level : 2 Years of College, Social class : Lower middle class, 

[Omelio]

It might be a horrible thing to say but I think one aspect of this attitude is based on the notion that ‘masculine’ traits are superior to ‘feminine’ ones. So that when two women aspire to be ‘masculine’ it is endearing as long as they don’t try it with men. When a man aspires to be ‘feminine’ its like he’s choosing to be inferior. You’ll find that men are much less offended by homosexuality when both men are ‘masculine’ than they are if one or both are ‘feminine’ and similarly you’ll notice that men arousal towards gay women is also limited to those women’s inability to achieve ‘masculinity’. And since those who have negative feeling toward any homosexual tend to believe that homosexuals are making a choice to be that way they believe that a man’s choice to be gay is more permanent than a woman’s. This idea is due to the notion that oral sex is not sex and that therefore a woman can never truly please another woman and that eventually she’ll realize she needs a man. A man on the other hand can do everything with another man that they can do with a woman plus recieve anal sex. This extra aspect is what most men focus on and it is another reason why they see a man as seeking inferiority. Because anal sex as a taboo is often about subjugating your partner. To perform this act which has no purpose but to please the man inserting and prove that he can convince you to do it for him. Part of the reason men pursue it with women is to experience the pleasure of dominating especially when they feel the woman has chosen to be dominated by that particular man.

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Name : Omelio, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Gay, Race : Black/African American, Religion : Theist, Age : 24, City : Philadelphia, State : PA, Country : United States, Occupation : Draftman, Education level : 2 Years of College, Social class : Lower middle class, 

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