Omelio

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  • in reply to: Should I come out to my family/friends? #21053

    Omelio
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    but then everyone except my family always assumed i was gay anyway. but your sexuality shouldn’t be a big deal so you shouldn’t make it a big deal. if you find yourself with a girlfriend and people ask you who you’re seeing you tell them about her just like you do or did about your boyfriend. if they blow you off it’s a decision that they are making and there is no reason to take the blame of that on yourself. you have some benefit as a female that you can join in with males admiring another female with little reaction. I would say that until you have a girlfriend the fact that you like girls is probably irrelevant. unless of course you like being set up with dates by your family lol in which case they may need that information 🙂

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    Name : Omelio, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Gay, Race : Black/African American, Religion : Theist, Age : 24, City : Philadelphia, State : PA, Country : United States, Occupation : Draftman, Education level : 2 Years of College, Social class : Lower middle class, 
    in reply to: first time #21052

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    if it hurts you should stop. pain is usually an indication that something is wrong. either you’re too tense, not enough lube or it’s just not a good day. it might help you to practice on yourself so you can see what you need. and so you can see what to expect when you are relaxed. but also make sure you’re with some that has patience.

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    Name : Omelio, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Gay, Race : Black/African American, Religion : Theist, Age : 24, City : Philadelphia, State : PA, Country : United States, Occupation : Draftman, Education level : 2 Years of College, Social class : Lower middle class, 
    in reply to: Corporal Punishment #20908

    Omelio
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    because most of us who were beat, did do something wrong. the truth in life is that mistakes and “bad” things generally lead to negative results. the problem of course is that people who get beat the most are people who probably have difficulty controlling themselves or understanding why thier behavior is wrong.

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    Name : Omelio, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Gay, Race : Black/African American, Religion : Theist, Age : 24, City : Philadelphia, State : PA, Country : United States, Occupation : Draftman, Education level : 2 Years of College, Social class : Lower middle class, 
    in reply to: Dandruff on black people? #41680

    Omelio
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    Yes we get dandruff, and it’s white just like yours. Don’t hold me to this, but I don’t think melanin is made in the top layer of skin, and that’s the layer were dandruff forms. However, if you’ve ever seen a black person’s dry skin elsewhere, you’ll notice that this ‘ashiness’ is white.

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    Name : Omelio, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Gay, Race : Black/African American, Religion : Theist, Age : 24, City : Philadelphia, State : PA, Country : United States, Occupation : Draftman, Education level : 2 Years of College, Social class : Lower middle class, 
    in reply to: Gay men and gay women #14908

    Omelio
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    It might be a horrible thing to say but I think one aspect of this attitude is based on the notion that ‘masculine’ traits are superior to ‘feminine’ ones. So that when two women aspire to be ‘masculine’ it is endearing as long as they don’t try it with men. When a man aspires to be ‘feminine’ its like he’s choosing to be inferior. You’ll find that men are much less offended by homosexuality when both men are ‘masculine’ than they are if one or both are ‘feminine’ and similarly you’ll notice that men arousal towards gay women is also limited to those women’s inability to achieve ‘masculinity’. And since those who have negative feeling toward any homosexual tend to believe that homosexuals are making a choice to be that way they believe that a man’s choice to be gay is more permanent than a woman’s. This idea is due to the notion that oral sex is not sex and that therefore a woman can never truly please another woman and that eventually she’ll realize she needs a man. A man on the other hand can do everything with another man that they can do with a woman plus recieve anal sex. This extra aspect is what most men focus on and it is another reason why they see a man as seeking inferiority. Because anal sex as a taboo is often about subjugating your partner. To perform this act which has no purpose but to please the man inserting and prove that he can convince you to do it for him. Part of the reason men pursue it with women is to experience the pleasure of dominating especially when they feel the woman has chosen to be dominated by that particular man.

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    Name : Omelio, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Gay, Race : Black/African American, Religion : Theist, Age : 24, City : Philadelphia, State : PA, Country : United States, Occupation : Draftman, Education level : 2 Years of College, Social class : Lower middle class, 
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