[Moni20311]

I know you want to learn about how to defend yourself against a homophobe parent. You mentioned how you want to show that not all of you look gay. So if you don’t look it and can pass for being straight, why would you want to risk a bunch of strife and conflict because you feel a need to tell others about your sexual preference? I mean, you know that most parents would be highly suspicious if a known homosexual were around their kids, so why risk the potential drama if you can avoid it, especially if you have an advantage of posing as straight?

I feel if you are gay, why tell the whole damn world? Why subject yourself to scorn when you can keep it a secret? It’s not like it’s anyone business or right to know. Just keep it to yourself.

I know I sound unsympathetic, but I feel as though many homosexuals bring things on themselves by being too open about their sexuality, and then they get pissed off beyond piss off-tivity when others don’t accept. What do you expect? You could have saved yourself from a lot of scorn, rejection and ridicule if you’d just kept that fact to yourself. I’m not saying you can’t be proud about who you are, but I don’t feel you have to broadcast the fact that you’re gay or a lesbian in order to be proud of who you are. You can be proud in the silence. I think some think if you’re closeted, then you’re ashamed. Not true. And to those out there who would be outraged at what I’m saying: I’m just saying keep it to yourself but be proud. Don’t accuse me of being a homophobe, because that’s not what I’m saying. Are we clear?

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Name : Moni20311, City : Ft. Myers, State : FL, Country : United States, 

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