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    The question you must ask yourself is ‘Do we want the same thing from one another? Or at the least, are we willing to give each other what the other wants?’ When it comes to male-female companionship, if it’s not mutual, what’s the point? There’s nothing wrong with a lack of commitment of itself, but if he wants you to do commitment things without a commitment, he’s got another thing coming. Of course, this all depends on what you mean by ‘benefits.’ A hug or a kiss here and there is one thing, but more than that… And when it comes to certain intimacies, I think you shouldn’t sell yourself short, even to a ‘boyfriend.’ But that’s neither here nor there; that’s your business. The center of the matter is whether or not both of you will give what the other wants. The point is, if you don’t want the same thing, is the what you’re actually getting from other person worth the sacrifice of what you’re giving him?

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    Name : Matt21826, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Christian, Age : 23, City : a strange place, State : TN, Country : United States, Occupation : composer, Education level : Over 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class, 
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